Oh wow, Im so sorry, you have gone through a lot. Your welcome and I do wish the best for you. Why some people go so far to to what your sis and her husband did, is just sad and I still cant get it in my head why they have to do things like that. Many Hugs
Im not giving up, in fact, I have some pretty crazy ideas ( owning a business one day crazy type of plan!!) where my kids can be with me and help, and I don't need to worry who will watch them, because they will be with me working and having fun, learning, getting an education!! Even if not, I got a plan B!!!