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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 317741" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>I found a website and looked thru it. It looks like simplistic stuff for typical kids- mostly younger children- to me. I swear I don't think this therapist gets it. But as usual, she's so convinved that I don't get it that she can't consider anything else.</p><p></p><p>For instance: "Set firm boundaries regarding tv and computer time". Yes, well....this is the kid who over-rode computer passwrods so after I had to call the company and have them lead me thru changing a chip on the motherboard, then putting an exterior type key-lock on the door, the child takes the door off the hinges to get to the computer. That was 3 years ago- do you have any idea how much things have progressed since then? Do they really think that blaming the parent in front of the child is the best answer??</p><p></p><p>therapist says "well, you <em>can</em> tell them that you just can't control him so they have to do something". Well, HELLOOOOOO, LADY, do you see where he is? Are you aware that the only other option is DSS which means he gets sent to my bro where he most likely will be molested? Never mind all that- if we know all these issues are here, why are we spending time reinforcing the confusion in the difficult child that this could just all be his mother's fault?? Why is it so hard to get all on the same page?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 317741, member: 3699"] I found a website and looked thru it. It looks like simplistic stuff for typical kids- mostly younger children- to me. I swear I don't think this therapist gets it. But as usual, she's so convinved that I don't get it that she can't consider anything else. For instance: "Set firm boundaries regarding tv and computer time". Yes, well....this is the kid who over-rode computer passwrods so after I had to call the company and have them lead me thru changing a chip on the motherboard, then putting an exterior type key-lock on the door, the child takes the door off the hinges to get to the computer. That was 3 years ago- do you have any idea how much things have progressed since then? Do they really think that blaming the parent in front of the child is the best answer?? therapist says "well, you [I]can[/I] tell them that you just can't control him so they have to do something". Well, HELLOOOOOO, LADY, do you see where he is? Are you aware that the only other option is DSS which means he gets sent to my bro where he most likely will be molested? Never mind all that- if we know all these issues are here, why are we spending time reinforcing the confusion in the difficult child that this could just all be his mother's fault?? Why is it so hard to get all on the same page? [/QUOTE]
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