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Talked to husband last night. Ideas? Thoughts? Am I expecting too much?
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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 418092" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>I get that, Step, and that was the point I was trying to make to him when I gave the example from work. When you're butt is on the line, you step it up. I imagine we all do. Then, when the crisis is over, ya slip a little bit. I think that's pretty normal. </p><p> </p><p>I would *think*, he'd be catering to my every whim, and then, in 6 months, we'd be back to the 90/10 routine again, and I'd say something and we'd cycle again. I'm not expecting miracles here (at least I don't think I am).</p><p> </p><p>The little he has done has been so obviously a token attempt that I think it makes me angrier. Like picking up 3 things that aren't his when I've just spent hours putting the living room back together from the accident. He wants the bed moved in our bedroom, but that's as far as that project ever gets - him saying it. He hasn't stepped it up at all. Nor does he seem to see any need to, and I honestly believe its not because he thinks I'm bluffing or wants me to boot him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 418092, member: 1848"] I get that, Step, and that was the point I was trying to make to him when I gave the example from work. When you're butt is on the line, you step it up. I imagine we all do. Then, when the crisis is over, ya slip a little bit. I think that's pretty normal. I would *think*, he'd be catering to my every whim, and then, in 6 months, we'd be back to the 90/10 routine again, and I'd say something and we'd cycle again. I'm not expecting miracles here (at least I don't think I am). The little he has done has been so obviously a token attempt that I think it makes me angrier. Like picking up 3 things that aren't his when I've just spent hours putting the living room back together from the accident. He wants the bed moved in our bedroom, but that's as far as that project ever gets - him saying it. He hasn't stepped it up at all. Nor does he seem to see any need to, and I honestly believe its not because he thinks I'm bluffing or wants me to boot him. [/QUOTE]
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