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Tammy Lovemysons, how are you?
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 634082" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I just saw your thread, LMS. Given that easy child has records showing the MEDICATION is prescribed to her by a doctor, and you are not in FL, there is every reason to believe that the felonies will be rightfully dropped. The pot? Bad choice but far from the worst thing she could do. Chances are in 10 yrs most of her generation will have had some small charge for it and it will be regarded as traffic tickets are by employers - no big deal unless your job includes driving and it is a recent charge.</p><p></p><p>PCs make mistakes. The P is for perfect but NOT because they don't make mistakes. It is because they LEARN from them. easy child is very insightful, thoughtful, and won't let the consequences of her mistakes be a reason to stop trying and working and to wallow in her problems. That just isn't who she is.</p><p></p><p>As for your difficult child, he is a manipulative little so-and-so, isn't he? Of course he needs a bond with you, but he does not need to be pulling all the koi to make sure you make excuses for him. His BS text is a last min attempt to keep you from making him actually have to deal with his own problems with-o you as a buffer. He is likely either freaking out that you might mean it or completely sure that you don't mean it and he can continue to make his problems more yours than his. that is generally his game - making the loving females in his life take care of him and his koi so that he can continue to use and abuse substances, those who love him, and everything else including himself. The thought that those who love him might actually make him deal with his problems himself, wow, that is probably one of the biggest freak out thoughts he has ever had. </p><p></p><p>easy child deserves the help she is getting because she will learn from this and continue with a positive plan for her life. difficult child deserves the disengagement because he will not learn unless he is forced to, and even then he iwll be kicking and screaming for Mommy to help save him from the 'sharks' that really are just the natural, logical consequences of his poor choices.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you got a weekend away! You deserve it. LOL on husband asking you what you want him to do to 'fix' everything. He is cute. Most of our guys don't phrase things so clearly when that is EXACTLY what they mean when we vent about stuff they cannot fix or change!</p><p></p><p>(((((hugs)))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 634082, member: 1233"] I just saw your thread, LMS. Given that easy child has records showing the MEDICATION is prescribed to her by a doctor, and you are not in FL, there is every reason to believe that the felonies will be rightfully dropped. The pot? Bad choice but far from the worst thing she could do. Chances are in 10 yrs most of her generation will have had some small charge for it and it will be regarded as traffic tickets are by employers - no big deal unless your job includes driving and it is a recent charge. PCs make mistakes. The P is for perfect but NOT because they don't make mistakes. It is because they LEARN from them. easy child is very insightful, thoughtful, and won't let the consequences of her mistakes be a reason to stop trying and working and to wallow in her problems. That just isn't who she is. As for your difficult child, he is a manipulative little so-and-so, isn't he? Of course he needs a bond with you, but he does not need to be pulling all the koi to make sure you make excuses for him. His BS text is a last min attempt to keep you from making him actually have to deal with his own problems with-o you as a buffer. He is likely either freaking out that you might mean it or completely sure that you don't mean it and he can continue to make his problems more yours than his. that is generally his game - making the loving females in his life take care of him and his koi so that he can continue to use and abuse substances, those who love him, and everything else including himself. The thought that those who love him might actually make him deal with his problems himself, wow, that is probably one of the biggest freak out thoughts he has ever had. easy child deserves the help she is getting because she will learn from this and continue with a positive plan for her life. difficult child deserves the disengagement because he will not learn unless he is forced to, and even then he iwll be kicking and screaming for Mommy to help save him from the 'sharks' that really are just the natural, logical consequences of his poor choices. I am glad you got a weekend away! You deserve it. LOL on husband asking you what you want him to do to 'fix' everything. He is cute. Most of our guys don't phrase things so clearly when that is EXACTLY what they mean when we vent about stuff they cannot fix or change! (((((hugs))))) [/QUOTE]
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