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<blockquote data-quote="CantGoBack" data-source="post: 407118" data-attributes="member: 11160"><p>Thanks Marg.</p><p>I needed a voice of reason. I'm learning more; apparently the Senior boys do this to the prettiest incoming freshman girls. The girls get crazy because a senior is paying attention to them; they join the senior crowd for a day or two, then the boy pressures them into sex. Then the phone calls end, they ignore them, it's over.</p><p>I'm dealing with my freakin' rage that my daughter got raped. These boys know what they're doing. My kid blames herself, which WE know is crazy but she doesn't. By law my kid (who was FOURTEEN just 2 weeks earlier) is below the legal age of consent UNLESS (and this makes me wanna puke) the boy is within 4 years of her age. HOW THE HELL DOES THAT MAKE IT OK??? Ask our lovely legislature.</p><p>Her self-esteem has been hammered. She thought she was "in love", gave up this precious gift, only to be tossed aside. I have to get her through all these feelings of worthlessness and have ONE huge stumbling block:</p><p>She doesn't know that I know.</p><p>She has opened up to a close family friend and her mother. She's afraid of me finding out. If I didn't go on her blog page I wouldn't know. </p><p>I guess she could forsee my anger. I pray it's not because she doesn't feel she can trust me; I always thought she & I were closer than with her mother but now I'm not sure. I am being torn apart by visions of this beautiful little girl on stage in her ballerina costume holding her flowers and beaming; then just a few years later being violated by this predator. </p><p>Now I read her blog page and I'm scared she's tumbling out of control.</p><p>I thank God this site is here to let me vent, and everyone seems to care. I thank you all so much for that. Nothing in my whole life - and I've been through a lot - ever prepared me for this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="CantGoBack, post: 407118, member: 11160"] Thanks Marg. I needed a voice of reason. I'm learning more; apparently the Senior boys do this to the prettiest incoming freshman girls. The girls get crazy because a senior is paying attention to them; they join the senior crowd for a day or two, then the boy pressures them into sex. Then the phone calls end, they ignore them, it's over. I'm dealing with my freakin' rage that my daughter got raped. These boys know what they're doing. My kid blames herself, which WE know is crazy but she doesn't. By law my kid (who was FOURTEEN just 2 weeks earlier) is below the legal age of consent UNLESS (and this makes me wanna puke) the boy is within 4 years of her age. HOW THE HELL DOES THAT MAKE IT OK??? Ask our lovely legislature. Her self-esteem has been hammered. She thought she was "in love", gave up this precious gift, only to be tossed aside. I have to get her through all these feelings of worthlessness and have ONE huge stumbling block: She doesn't know that I know. She has opened up to a close family friend and her mother. She's afraid of me finding out. If I didn't go on her blog page I wouldn't know. I guess she could forsee my anger. I pray it's not because she doesn't feel she can trust me; I always thought she & I were closer than with her mother but now I'm not sure. I am being torn apart by visions of this beautiful little girl on stage in her ballerina costume holding her flowers and beaming; then just a few years later being violated by this predator. Now I read her blog page and I'm scared she's tumbling out of control. I thank God this site is here to let me vent, and everyone seems to care. I thank you all so much for that. Nothing in my whole life - and I've been through a lot - ever prepared me for this. [/QUOTE]
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