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<blockquote data-quote="AnnieO" data-source="post: 407135" data-attributes="member: 6705"><p>From me... Who walked in on my then-13-y/o daughter in the act with her boyfriend...</p><p> </p><p>If you are right about this, let the school know. ANONYMOUSLY would be best for your daughter, so she isn't bullied about it. And if she has told your wife, then have your wife talk to her. I found out the HARD WAY that Onyxx was desperate for a female to talk to. BM was not the right person, and husband was DAD.</p><p> </p><p>Yes, girls need Daddy. No argument. Some things are just easier with women - for SOME people - not all.</p><p> </p><p>And almost all teenagers could benefit from some therapy. Even so-called "normal" teens have HUGE self-esteem issues. </p><p> </p><p>Compared to our difficult children, I was "normal", but sex was a way I could hang on to the guy I wanted - and that was 20+ years ago. I am more than slightly blessed that I didn't catch anything. I wasn't always careful! I finally figured out that if that was the only way to be accepted, they could take their little clique and stuff it. But I didn't understand that for YEARS.</p><p> </p><p>And as a Daddy - you want her to remain your precious little girl - but from an only-child-Daddy's-little-girl point of view? Ain't gonna happen. And, no, nothing prepares you for it. And you might be closer than your wife. Do not whatever you do take it personally. She's spreading her wings, and even though she seems to know she did something not right for her - best thing to do is just stay involved. Get her into therapy. Gyn exam (finally got Onyxx in a couple weeks ago, thank heavens). Pap smear, talk candidly, admit you're embarrassed if you are, and remind her as much as possible that you love her.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AnnieO, post: 407135, member: 6705"] From me... Who walked in on my then-13-y/o daughter in the act with her boyfriend... If you are right about this, let the school know. ANONYMOUSLY would be best for your daughter, so she isn't bullied about it. And if she has told your wife, then have your wife talk to her. I found out the HARD WAY that Onyxx was desperate for a female to talk to. BM was not the right person, and husband was DAD. Yes, girls need Daddy. No argument. Some things are just easier with women - for SOME people - not all. And almost all teenagers could benefit from some therapy. Even so-called "normal" teens have HUGE self-esteem issues. Compared to our difficult children, I was "normal", but sex was a way I could hang on to the guy I wanted - and that was 20+ years ago. I am more than slightly blessed that I didn't catch anything. I wasn't always careful! I finally figured out that if that was the only way to be accepted, they could take their little clique and stuff it. But I didn't understand that for YEARS. And as a Daddy - you want her to remain your precious little girl - but from an only-child-Daddy's-little-girl point of view? Ain't gonna happen. And, no, nothing prepares you for it. And you might be closer than your wife. Do not whatever you do take it personally. She's spreading her wings, and even though she seems to know she did something not right for her - best thing to do is just stay involved. Get her into therapy. Gyn exam (finally got Onyxx in a couple weeks ago, thank heavens). Pap smear, talk candidly, admit you're embarrassed if you are, and remind her as much as possible that you love her. [/QUOTE]
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