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The 2nd (maybe 3rd) worst phone call
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<blockquote data-quote="DoneDad" data-source="post: 738727" data-attributes="member: 17244"><p>Sorry about what you’re going through. She has shown you (again) who she is.</p><p></p><p>For us, we finally had to accept that daughter is who she is. We can’t change her. Attempts to help her are just opportunities to take advantage of us to her. The only thing we can do is detach from her lifestyle and choices.</p><p></p><p>I’d get her out and make it VERY clear that she can’t come back. If she’s throwing furniture and damaging property, get the police involved.</p><p></p><p>She’s shown clearly that she is incapable of being a parent. Tell her you will not be raising her child for her and that she should consider adoption. She probably won’t do it, but that’s all you can do.</p><p></p><p>If you want to stop the roller coaster ride, you have to get off. She’s not going to change, no matter how much you want her to.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DoneDad, post: 738727, member: 17244"] Sorry about what you’re going through. She has shown you (again) who she is. For us, we finally had to accept that daughter is who she is. We can’t change her. Attempts to help her are just opportunities to take advantage of us to her. The only thing we can do is detach from her lifestyle and choices. I’d get her out and make it VERY clear that she can’t come back. If she’s throwing furniture and damaging property, get the police involved. She’s shown clearly that she is incapable of being a parent. Tell her you will not be raising her child for her and that she should consider adoption. She probably won’t do it, but that’s all you can do. If you want to stop the roller coaster ride, you have to get off. She’s not going to change, no matter how much you want her to. [/QUOTE]
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