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The Bad, the Good, and the Ugly
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 484019"><p>Steely,</p><p></p><p>Hugs and now is the time to take special care of you. It is wonderful he has found a good therapist and is working on stuff and letting himself feel the pain. You are right he needs to do that and it is healthy for him to do that.</p><p></p><p>I think for us mothers it is excrutiating sometimes to watch their pain and to know they have to go through it. Especially when it is around things that happened to them when they were young... you can't help wonder about the what ifs... and that brings up pain for us.</p><p></p><p>I hope you continue to talk about your feelings about all of this in counseling.... because you need a good healthy place to do that. And take extra good care of yourself. I don't think you are being selfish, I think you are being honest. You know you are going to continue to be there for him... but man the process can be really hard on you too.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 484019"] Steely, Hugs and now is the time to take special care of you. It is wonderful he has found a good therapist and is working on stuff and letting himself feel the pain. You are right he needs to do that and it is healthy for him to do that. I think for us mothers it is excrutiating sometimes to watch their pain and to know they have to go through it. Especially when it is around things that happened to them when they were young... you can't help wonder about the what ifs... and that brings up pain for us. I hope you continue to talk about your feelings about all of this in counseling.... because you need a good healthy place to do that. And take extra good care of yourself. I don't think you are being selfish, I think you are being honest. You know you are going to continue to be there for him... but man the process can be really hard on you too. TL [/QUOTE]
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