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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 485114" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Thanks Susie......</p><p></p><p>I have to say this may be one of the harder roads I have walked with him. To see him so raw, so vulnerable, so hurt - brings up a whole new venue of emotions than a screaming, raging, threatening difficult child brings up.</p><p></p><p>I do have a counselor (I moved to Oregon, where there are a lot more resources) - I have been seeing her about 3 months. However our last session she just really made me mad. She doesn't just want to listen, and process with me - she wants to fix it and give me solutions. Believe me - I am the queen of giving people "answers" and "troubleshooting", including for myself --- but what I stink at is processing the feelings I have. I can't apply the solution until the wound has healed, if that makes sense.</p><p></p><p>i don't want to send matt's new counselor a note or anything, because I don't want to interfere in this, like I have done everything else in his life. I keep wanting to call her and tell her all sorts of stuff - but I can't - because I will ruin this relationship.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 485114, member: 3301"] Thanks Susie...... I have to say this may be one of the harder roads I have walked with him. To see him so raw, so vulnerable, so hurt - brings up a whole new venue of emotions than a screaming, raging, threatening difficult child brings up. I do have a counselor (I moved to Oregon, where there are a lot more resources) - I have been seeing her about 3 months. However our last session she just really made me mad. She doesn't just want to listen, and process with me - she wants to fix it and give me solutions. Believe me - I am the queen of giving people "answers" and "troubleshooting", including for myself --- but what I stink at is processing the feelings I have. I can't apply the solution until the wound has healed, if that makes sense. i don't want to send matt's new counselor a note or anything, because I don't want to interfere in this, like I have done everything else in his life. I keep wanting to call her and tell her all sorts of stuff - but I can't - because I will ruin this relationship. [/QUOTE]
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