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the ball is in his court??
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<blockquote data-quote="pasajes4" data-source="post: 721072" data-attributes="member: 12856"><p>So, is he coming home? Is that really a solution? M says yes, then when son screws up, M wants him gone. He will screw up. He only wants to escape doing any real work or commitment. The key here is that he does not want to commit to anything. That will include your and M's rules.</p><p></p><p>If he comes, let M deal with ALL of it. Everytime we jump in and rescue we only hurt them and ourselves.</p><p></p><p>Copa, Some parents do the grown child living at home until the day they (parents) die. That's a choice you can make. That maybe what you heart is telling you. The only way that it would work is if you have absolutely 0 expectations for him drug wise, work wise, financially, and socially. At some point you are going to have to come to peace one way or another. We all do.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pasajes4, post: 721072, member: 12856"] So, is he coming home? Is that really a solution? M says yes, then when son screws up, M wants him gone. He will screw up. He only wants to escape doing any real work or commitment. The key here is that he does not want to commit to anything. That will include your and M's rules. If he comes, let M deal with ALL of it. Everytime we jump in and rescue we only hurt them and ourselves. Copa, Some parents do the grown child living at home until the day they (parents) die. That's a choice you can make. That maybe what you heart is telling you. The only way that it would work is if you have absolutely 0 expectations for him drug wise, work wise, financially, and socially. At some point you are going to have to come to peace one way or another. We all do. [/QUOTE]
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