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the ball is in his court??
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 721076" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>to threaten to renege on the deal, to go to the street, when he knew all the while he had another means to get the money, that is cruel. and all the while, he must have known he was going to pay the rent. what does it serve in him to put me through agony? i have to face i go there myself. that i can resist. i can stay in myself when he calls. if i learn how.</p><p></p><p>i know i have to find some way to be emotionally insulated. to not abandon myself. to tie myself to the mast.</p><p></p><p>the ball is in his court. he has an ongoing way to pay the rent. his monthly payment covers it. he has work if he is open to it. he has enough money left over to eat. he has access to all the services in the world. he has a peer group. he has friends. there is a college nearby. he could go free.</p><p></p><p>if this stabilty is worth anything to him he will maintain it. i believe it is worth it to him. the first thing he said is: mom. i'm sorry. i'm stable.</p><p></p><p>the problem is: i am not.</p><p></p><p>now it is time for me to locate myself in me. the question is, how?</p><p></p><p>thank you everybody.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 721076, member: 18958"] to threaten to renege on the deal, to go to the street, when he knew all the while he had another means to get the money, that is cruel. and all the while, he must have known he was going to pay the rent. what does it serve in him to put me through agony? i have to face i go there myself. that i can resist. i can stay in myself when he calls. if i learn how. i know i have to find some way to be emotionally insulated. to not abandon myself. to tie myself to the mast. the ball is in his court. he has an ongoing way to pay the rent. his monthly payment covers it. he has work if he is open to it. he has enough money left over to eat. he has access to all the services in the world. he has a peer group. he has friends. there is a college nearby. he could go free. if this stabilty is worth anything to him he will maintain it. i believe it is worth it to him. the first thing he said is: mom. i'm sorry. i'm stable. the problem is: i am not. now it is time for me to locate myself in me. the question is, how? thank you everybody. [/QUOTE]
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