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the ball is in his court??
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 721135" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>there is really a compulsion to the kind of attachment i feel to results in my son's life over which i have no control or right to control. that has nothing to do with anything loving. i see this.</p><p></p><p>i get how primitive it is. it hits me in the deepest pits of me. i am turned inside out.</p><p></p><p>in my own case it is not "expectations." in the sense of anything cognitive.</p><p></p><p>it is more, i think, an attachment wound in me that my son may well use to manipulate me and which has only hurt him let alone me. </p><p></p><p>there are no excuses here. just wanting to name it and claw out from under.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 721135, member: 18958"] there is really a compulsion to the kind of attachment i feel to results in my son's life over which i have no control or right to control. that has nothing to do with anything loving. i see this. i get how primitive it is. it hits me in the deepest pits of me. i am turned inside out. in my own case it is not "expectations." in the sense of anything cognitive. it is more, i think, an attachment wound in me that my son may well use to manipulate me and which has only hurt him let alone me. there are no excuses here. just wanting to name it and claw out from under. [/QUOTE]
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