RE, I guess I have never really looked at it this way. You are so right.
Yes, it is hard. I know better than to engage him and get drawn into the craziness. I'm pretty sure I will send him the ID documents and just put in a simple note that I wish him well. I will be sending the documents certified mail, that way he can't accuse me that I didn't send them.
Thanks so much for sharing your input.