In spite of difficult child's head games I really did enjoy Christmas. For the most part I have very little contact with difficult child. He's pretty typical in that I only hear from him when he's in trouble or wants something. I shared on another post about him needing my help to get an ID. I was not happy about it but he does need an ID so I've sent off for the documents he will need. This is the first thing I've done to help him in quite a few years.