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<blockquote data-quote="joysheph" data-source="post: 744463" data-attributes="member: 21496"><p>That's just it, we have set up boundaries several years ago. I have followed thru until this last time he had a humbleness in him and wanting to stop using. I seen the other day the humbleness is gone. So I yet again turn to this website and remember what I've learned and the strength I've gained from here.</p><p>So, I woke up and packed up his things and realized that he broke the contract he used drugs. Now he must leave. Sure I get addicts it's a disease but if you are a diabetic and eat that chocolate cake and you are ill afterwards so you grab your insulin. To only realize was that cake really worth it? So you get back on track to a healthy lifestyle. </p><p>I keep wondering he tells me he had a moment and he hates how he feels and wishes he never used. But in the same breath he says how hes ADHD and he for once felt like he can focus and write and read again. Bull crap it's the drugs grabbing him back in. He says I'm ruin his life if I make him leave and that will make him buy more dope. I yelled no it's you not me. </p><p>I've joined other FB groups that are in recovery just to read and learn from both sides of this crisis. Yes. I have read many posts of addicts relapsing and most will post how they go to meetings or call a sponsor and they will start back on recovery. Not my son he thinks 12 steps are not for him and he can do this with family support. But yet he sure did finish all the dope dont want to flush it down the drain not to waste the drug! Sure he relapsed we are humans but why continue the high why not flush the rest and seek put for help? I don't get that?</p><p>Joysheph</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="joysheph, post: 744463, member: 21496"] That's just it, we have set up boundaries several years ago. I have followed thru until this last time he had a humbleness in him and wanting to stop using. I seen the other day the humbleness is gone. So I yet again turn to this website and remember what I've learned and the strength I've gained from here. So, I woke up and packed up his things and realized that he broke the contract he used drugs. Now he must leave. Sure I get addicts it's a disease but if you are a diabetic and eat that chocolate cake and you are ill afterwards so you grab your insulin. To only realize was that cake really worth it? So you get back on track to a healthy lifestyle. I keep wondering he tells me he had a moment and he hates how he feels and wishes he never used. But in the same breath he says how hes ADHD and he for once felt like he can focus and write and read again. Bull crap it's the drugs grabbing him back in. He says I'm ruin his life if I make him leave and that will make him buy more dope. I yelled no it's you not me. I've joined other FB groups that are in recovery just to read and learn from both sides of this crisis. Yes. I have read many posts of addicts relapsing and most will post how they go to meetings or call a sponsor and they will start back on recovery. Not my son he thinks 12 steps are not for him and he can do this with family support. But yet he sure did finish all the dope dont want to flush it down the drain not to waste the drug! Sure he relapsed we are humans but why continue the high why not flush the rest and seek put for help? I don't get that? Joysheph [/QUOTE]
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