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<blockquote data-quote="joysheph" data-source="post: 744483" data-attributes="member: 21496"><p>We got the motel as a Christmas gift. Hoping he will sleep and tomorrow wake up and go to a sober living. He knows how to locate a house. He has been in three different homes. He knows there is rehab for homeless or low income he has reached to several in the state. His issues is he dont follow through things...life rules.</p><p>Since he was 18 he started smoking weed with friends and wanted to come home to isolate in his room or in the yard. I know this now he wants to be home to do what he wants in his room. As like he did when he was a minor. No worries no Bill's to pay. I was in a fog and enabled him nearly to death. And I it terrifies me to no end how he can manipulate me to see what I want to see and just ignore the signs. He dont know the new mom the mom who set boundaries and gas open my eyes and to trust my gut when I know he is not right.</p><p>What can I do? Allow him to be safe in the comfort of my home being sober to relapse to being sober to relapse over and over like a broken record? </p><p>Yes I worry less and sleep better when hes here safe and warm. But what is he doing when I'm not looking? Drinking, pot, dope, heroin? Is it okay to allow him to keep playing this same old record under my roof? I have guilt yes I do. Do I want him here no I don't. Do I keep pleading him to go to rehab when he denies. Do I put him out of my life if he refuses treatment? I have no clue what to do. Nothing. I'm tired. I want to live life be happy not worry if he is in the room with a needle. Dying or fading away to Lala land. Do I help with shelter? Theres so many questions and I have no one face to face who gets this kind of crisis. I come here to find help answers.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="joysheph, post: 744483, member: 21496"] We got the motel as a Christmas gift. Hoping he will sleep and tomorrow wake up and go to a sober living. He knows how to locate a house. He has been in three different homes. He knows there is rehab for homeless or low income he has reached to several in the state. His issues is he dont follow through things...life rules. Since he was 18 he started smoking weed with friends and wanted to come home to isolate in his room or in the yard. I know this now he wants to be home to do what he wants in his room. As like he did when he was a minor. No worries no Bill's to pay. I was in a fog and enabled him nearly to death. And I it terrifies me to no end how he can manipulate me to see what I want to see and just ignore the signs. He dont know the new mom the mom who set boundaries and gas open my eyes and to trust my gut when I know he is not right. What can I do? Allow him to be safe in the comfort of my home being sober to relapse to being sober to relapse over and over like a broken record? Yes I worry less and sleep better when hes here safe and warm. But what is he doing when I'm not looking? Drinking, pot, dope, heroin? Is it okay to allow him to keep playing this same old record under my roof? I have guilt yes I do. Do I want him here no I don't. Do I keep pleading him to go to rehab when he denies. Do I put him out of my life if he refuses treatment? I have no clue what to do. Nothing. I'm tired. I want to live life be happy not worry if he is in the room with a needle. Dying or fading away to Lala land. Do I help with shelter? Theres so many questions and I have no one face to face who gets this kind of crisis. I come here to find help answers. [/QUOTE]
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