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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 423533" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>Thanks. It does help that others see it. Unfortunately, others see it in this community, and I don't have to speak a WORD.</p><p></p><p>Hound, I've tried. It does no good. I have decided until my husband can stand up and say something, there is absolutely nothing more I can say that will ever make a difference. He is the parent of his daughter and he picked me for a wife...he needs to stand up for his choices. Back in the day when I tried to work with cgfg and he was supposedly "on board with me" and they went behind my back to do whatever they wanted, if he would have either told me to butt out, or told them to support what "we" were doing...well, I think we wouldn't be in this mess. At least not this deep. And I think he's acquired a lot of their attitude.</p><p></p><p>husband and I had some further discussion and I reminded him of several times he jumped difficult child 1's butt for doing something "half-***ed". I said "I don't care what you do with cgfg, but it wouldn't have been ok for him, or easy child, and it won't be ok for Wee, so I just don't want to have to hear it being ok for cgfg". Yeah, things aren't happy at my home. I wonder if I care?</p><p></p><p>Heck of it is, if Two Brooms ever really did put forth effort and really try (like tonight - other than that little incident and her jumping in on Wee when he volunteered he missed recess today (which he missed voluntarily, I might add, in order to make up time he missed working while he was holed up in his "safe place")) she was relatively benign. Even came in to see the prom dress I am altering and made some small talk. But I am just so worn raw with it all... Like I told husband, when you get smacked in the face 80% of the times you see someone, you learn to be gun-shy of that person pretty darn quick. And I <em>am</em> the spoiled rich kid. (that made him get up and walk away...guess maybe I'm not supposed to know that?)</p><p></p><p>Oh well. Tomorrow is a new day. Thanks for letting me vent.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 423533, member: 1848"] Thanks. It does help that others see it. Unfortunately, others see it in this community, and I don't have to speak a WORD. Hound, I've tried. It does no good. I have decided until my husband can stand up and say something, there is absolutely nothing more I can say that will ever make a difference. He is the parent of his daughter and he picked me for a wife...he needs to stand up for his choices. Back in the day when I tried to work with cgfg and he was supposedly "on board with me" and they went behind my back to do whatever they wanted, if he would have either told me to butt out, or told them to support what "we" were doing...well, I think we wouldn't be in this mess. At least not this deep. And I think he's acquired a lot of their attitude. husband and I had some further discussion and I reminded him of several times he jumped difficult child 1's butt for doing something "half-***ed". I said "I don't care what you do with cgfg, but it wouldn't have been ok for him, or easy child, and it won't be ok for Wee, so I just don't want to have to hear it being ok for cgfg". Yeah, things aren't happy at my home. I wonder if I care? Heck of it is, if Two Brooms ever really did put forth effort and really try (like tonight - other than that little incident and her jumping in on Wee when he volunteered he missed recess today (which he missed voluntarily, I might add, in order to make up time he missed working while he was holed up in his "safe place")) she was relatively benign. Even came in to see the prom dress I am altering and made some small talk. But I am just so worn raw with it all... Like I told husband, when you get smacked in the face 80% of the times you see someone, you learn to be gun-shy of that person pretty darn quick. And I [I]am[/I] the spoiled rich kid. (that made him get up and walk away...guess maybe I'm not supposed to know that?) Oh well. Tomorrow is a new day. Thanks for letting me vent. [/QUOTE]
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