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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 420556" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>PG I know how your heart is hurting so much right now. One day during my difficult child's six week stay out of the house she called and begged to come home. We talked about her coming home and I told her that our home was finally peaceful and I couldn;t go back to the chaos. She told me she hated her life and had never been so depressed in her life. We talked about rehab and I told her we couldn't afford any but she could come home the next evening and talk to husband and I about options. She never came and the next time we talked she decided she didn't want to come home. So the anquish I felt about not rescuing her was not shared by her and she went on with her drugging and drinking for another five weeks.</p><p></p><p>When your difficult child finally hits rock bottom you will know it. We told difficult child we would be there for her when she wanted to finally get help and we would always love her but we could no longer enable her to kill herself. You difficult child knows you are there for support if and when she wants to get clean. In the meantime the only thing that helped me was coming here to this board and keeping busy.</p><p></p><p>I am hoping that your daughter's bottom comes soon. </p><p></p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 420556, member: 59"] PG I know how your heart is hurting so much right now. One day during my difficult child's six week stay out of the house she called and begged to come home. We talked about her coming home and I told her that our home was finally peaceful and I couldn;t go back to the chaos. She told me she hated her life and had never been so depressed in her life. We talked about rehab and I told her we couldn't afford any but she could come home the next evening and talk to husband and I about options. She never came and the next time we talked she decided she didn't want to come home. So the anquish I felt about not rescuing her was not shared by her and she went on with her drugging and drinking for another five weeks. When your difficult child finally hits rock bottom you will know it. We told difficult child we would be there for her when she wanted to finally get help and we would always love her but we could no longer enable her to kill herself. You difficult child knows you are there for support if and when she wants to get clean. In the meantime the only thing that helped me was coming here to this board and keeping busy. I am hoping that your daughter's bottom comes soon. Hugs, Nancy [/QUOTE]
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