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The counselor said WHAT????
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 390914" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Marg and Lisa are right. He now knows something happened. You cannot go back and take this knowledge away from him. Sit him down, tell him you are very sorry you did not tell him right away but you were shocked and startled. You didn't think it was the right place to tell him. Explain it briefly and simply, the way Marg said. Otherwise he will always know you are hiding something from him. Tell him the therapist was very wrong to bring it up but was worried about him and if he needed any more help. Then go after the therapist and chew him a new one, and go to his boss and have him censured or replaced. This was TOTALLY WRONG. </p><p> </p><p>I am so sorry this has come up. Right now you need to earn back his trust. It will be slow but it will happen IF you are honest with him about this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 390914, member: 1233"] Marg and Lisa are right. He now knows something happened. You cannot go back and take this knowledge away from him. Sit him down, tell him you are very sorry you did not tell him right away but you were shocked and startled. You didn't think it was the right place to tell him. Explain it briefly and simply, the way Marg said. Otherwise he will always know you are hiding something from him. Tell him the therapist was very wrong to bring it up but was worried about him and if he needed any more help. Then go after the therapist and chew him a new one, and go to his boss and have him censured or replaced. This was TOTALLY WRONG. I am so sorry this has come up. Right now you need to earn back his trust. It will be slow but it will happen IF you are honest with him about this. [/QUOTE]
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