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The Denial is Just Shocking
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 287254" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>WSM, I've never seen this degree of denial. I don't even think it's denial. This is way beyond normal denial where parents sometimes try to make suspicious, quirky symptoms into "normal." Sounds like the lying to himself and others a way of life for your hub, if he also excuses his parents. Maybe husband has mental health problems and truly doesn't see the truth.</p><p></p><p>Are you working on leaving him? That's the main issue here. He's mad that you don't trust him? You CAN'T trust him. </p><p></p><p>Please get out of that mess. The kid is never going to get help and he may kill somebody. Call CPS for your stepdaughter. That would be the kindest thing and only thing you can do for her, since her father isn't going to protect her.</p><p></p><p>Your hub needs as much help as your stepson. Once you are detached from the situation and no longer living there you will see how twisted he is. It is easy to see how stepson turned out the way he did. This man is trying to gaslight you, and you are living with it and doubting yoruself because you are surrounded by madness. It can almost seem like you're the one who is crazy because I'm sure husband is very convincing. Maybe he is somewhat psychopathic as well as his son, whom I'm convinced is well on his way there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 287254, member: 1550"] WSM, I've never seen this degree of denial. I don't even think it's denial. This is way beyond normal denial where parents sometimes try to make suspicious, quirky symptoms into "normal." Sounds like the lying to himself and others a way of life for your hub, if he also excuses his parents. Maybe husband has mental health problems and truly doesn't see the truth. Are you working on leaving him? That's the main issue here. He's mad that you don't trust him? You CAN'T trust him. Please get out of that mess. The kid is never going to get help and he may kill somebody. Call CPS for your stepdaughter. That would be the kindest thing and only thing you can do for her, since her father isn't going to protect her. Your hub needs as much help as your stepson. Once you are detached from the situation and no longer living there you will see how twisted he is. It is easy to see how stepson turned out the way he did. This man is trying to gaslight you, and you are living with it and doubting yoruself because you are surrounded by madness. It can almost seem like you're the one who is crazy because I'm sure husband is very convincing. Maybe he is somewhat psychopathic as well as his son, whom I'm convinced is well on his way there. [/QUOTE]
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