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The Denial is Just Shocking
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 287374" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>MWM, I am so glad I am not the only one to see how mentally ill WSM's husband is!! In earlier posts I felt alone when I insisted the man is not in denial, he is delusional.</p><p></p><p>WHY would everyone else be out to get her stepson? That is what I am wondering. Why her husband is determined to think others are setting the difficult child up? It doesn't make sense.</p><p></p><p>Of course, nothing the man does regarding his kids makes sense, in my opinion. If he made sense he would have that boy in a long term facility where he could get help, and the husband would have the stepdau in therapy and he would be protecting his daughter, not throwing her onto the altar of mental illness he has built to worship his difficult child!</p><p></p><p>Anyway, I am horrified by the situation. WSM, you NEED to take steps to get AWAY from this situation. Even if you must borrow money or beg help from a relative, your kids are worth it. YOU are worth it. </p><p></p><p>GET OUT OF THERE BEFORE YOU ARE SERIOUSLY HURT OR YOUR CHILDREN ARE SERIOUSLY HURT. </p><p></p><p>YOU CANNOT SAVE STEPDAU BECAUSE HER FATHER WILL BLOCK EVERY EFFORT TO HELP HER.</p><p></p><p>Sorry to shout, but I feel very very scared for you. Each post has the situation taking a scarier turn, in my opinion. The difficult child is very capable of plotting long term harm to you and your children. You MUST put their safety above all other concerns. Even concerns about stepdau must come second, as your husband doesn't want her to have help.</p><p></p><p>Sending many hugs to you. Off my soapbox also!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 287374, member: 1233"] MWM, I am so glad I am not the only one to see how mentally ill WSM's husband is!! In earlier posts I felt alone when I insisted the man is not in denial, he is delusional. WHY would everyone else be out to get her stepson? That is what I am wondering. Why her husband is determined to think others are setting the difficult child up? It doesn't make sense. Of course, nothing the man does regarding his kids makes sense, in my opinion. If he made sense he would have that boy in a long term facility where he could get help, and the husband would have the stepdau in therapy and he would be protecting his daughter, not throwing her onto the altar of mental illness he has built to worship his difficult child! Anyway, I am horrified by the situation. WSM, you NEED to take steps to get AWAY from this situation. Even if you must borrow money or beg help from a relative, your kids are worth it. YOU are worth it. GET OUT OF THERE BEFORE YOU ARE SERIOUSLY HURT OR YOUR CHILDREN ARE SERIOUSLY HURT. YOU CANNOT SAVE STEPDAU BECAUSE HER FATHER WILL BLOCK EVERY EFFORT TO HELP HER. Sorry to shout, but I feel very very scared for you. Each post has the situation taking a scarier turn, in my opinion. The difficult child is very capable of plotting long term harm to you and your children. You MUST put their safety above all other concerns. Even concerns about stepdau must come second, as your husband doesn't want her to have help. Sending many hugs to you. Off my soapbox also! [/QUOTE]
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