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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 617289" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Chrissey, welcome. Your daughter seems like many of our adult kids here, entitled, manipulative, unable to connect her actions with responsibility and cruel.</p><p></p><p>It's prudent for you to do some research and find out what your legal rights with the grandkids are. I also believe that you and your husband may benefit from getting some professional support for yourselves, counseling for you to disengage from your daughters choices. You may find the article on detachment at the bottom of my post helpful. Your daughter has found a way to hold you hostage with her demands and it's a tactic where everyone loses, including and perhaps especially the children. I think your best bet would be to get as much information as you possibly can from authorities giving you the knowledge to know how to proceed.</p><p></p><p>You deserve to be having the life you desire and to move forward with that without your daughter's mean spirited choices. When there are grandkids in the mix, it complicates things, but even with that, detachment is the way to find peace for yourselves. Find support for you and your husband, where you can feel nourished, guided and given information and tools to make the best choices you can without jeopardizing your future. Keep posting, it helps. Wishing you peace.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 617289, member: 13542"] Chrissey, welcome. Your daughter seems like many of our adult kids here, entitled, manipulative, unable to connect her actions with responsibility and cruel. It's prudent for you to do some research and find out what your legal rights with the grandkids are. I also believe that you and your husband may benefit from getting some professional support for yourselves, counseling for you to disengage from your daughters choices. You may find the article on detachment at the bottom of my post helpful. Your daughter has found a way to hold you hostage with her demands and it's a tactic where everyone loses, including and perhaps especially the children. I think your best bet would be to get as much information as you possibly can from authorities giving you the knowledge to know how to proceed. You deserve to be having the life you desire and to move forward with that without your daughter's mean spirited choices. When there are grandkids in the mix, it complicates things, but even with that, detachment is the way to find peace for yourselves. Find support for you and your husband, where you can feel nourished, guided and given information and tools to make the best choices you can without jeopardizing your future. Keep posting, it helps. Wishing you peace. [/QUOTE]
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