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The final vestige of hope is gone
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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 570082" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>I always read your posts with personal interest as my life has been so greatly impacted by GFGmom. Like you I made sure my grandsons had regular access to a wonderful well qualified psychiatrist. easy child turned easy child/difficult child largely due to the influence of his GFGmom and later he became difficult child#1. on the other hand he has retained his kind, loving and respectful relationship with me and husband. difficult child#2 had too many years with GFGmom and although he also is a easy child with us his ongoing exposure to her likely will prevent him from ever functioning in a truly healthy way in society.</p><p></p><p>I have spent many years separating from GFGmom after giving my all in my support efforts. Two days ago I slipped. I swore to myself (and on the Board) that I would never give her another cent. Two days ago I lent her $100 to keep the electricity going at her house. I just couldn't stand that difficult child#2 and his little sister would be again be plunged into darkness right before Christmas. The "loan" was for 24 hours. I received a text saying "sorry it will be one day late". Chances are I'll never see it. Pulling out of the quicksand is hard...especially when kids are involved. I am delighted that your sixteen year old has come to accept what is reality. I am thrilled that she is thriving and happy. I am happy for you...although I understand the piece of your heart that remains attached. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 570082, member: 35"] I always read your posts with personal interest as my life has been so greatly impacted by GFGmom. Like you I made sure my grandsons had regular access to a wonderful well qualified psychiatrist. easy child turned easy child/difficult child largely due to the influence of his GFGmom and later he became difficult child#1. on the other hand he has retained his kind, loving and respectful relationship with me and husband. difficult child#2 had too many years with GFGmom and although he also is a easy child with us his ongoing exposure to her likely will prevent him from ever functioning in a truly healthy way in society. I have spent many years separating from GFGmom after giving my all in my support efforts. Two days ago I slipped. I swore to myself (and on the Board) that I would never give her another cent. Two days ago I lent her $100 to keep the electricity going at her house. I just couldn't stand that difficult child#2 and his little sister would be again be plunged into darkness right before Christmas. The "loan" was for 24 hours. I received a text saying "sorry it will be one day late". Chances are I'll never see it. Pulling out of the quicksand is hard...especially when kids are involved. I am delighted that your sixteen year old has come to accept what is reality. I am thrilled that she is thriving and happy. I am happy for you...although I understand the piece of your heart that remains attached. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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