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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 368886" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>And that's exactly how it feels, and why it bothers me that his parents continually refer to it as "his", and also why I pitched an epic fit about that. They still make reference to the place as his, but he doesn't do anything with the place that he doesn't involve me in anymore. But there's that old saying about how thoughts become words, words become actions, actions become habit, and habit becomes character...or something like that. I can't fathom what it would be like with him if we were in a place that wasn't mine to start out...which is why if his parents handed him the deed to their place today, I would not move. Their attitude has become his. I wish I'd have had the family insight before I married him... but, here we are.</p><p>You are right, the house is clean, the truck is fixed. I will drive it when we leave on Thur. Things will change cause I'm sick of this. I have thoroughly explained how disrespectful he is to me. I don't mind having to drop reminders, but something has to give.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 368886, member: 1848"] And that's exactly how it feels, and why it bothers me that his parents continually refer to it as "his", and also why I pitched an epic fit about that. They still make reference to the place as his, but he doesn't do anything with the place that he doesn't involve me in anymore. But there's that old saying about how thoughts become words, words become actions, actions become habit, and habit becomes character...or something like that. I can't fathom what it would be like with him if we were in a place that wasn't mine to start out...which is why if his parents handed him the deed to their place today, I would not move. Their attitude has become his. I wish I'd have had the family insight before I married him... but, here we are. You are right, the house is clean, the truck is fixed. I will drive it when we leave on Thur. Things will change cause I'm sick of this. I have thoroughly explained how disrespectful he is to me. I don't mind having to drop reminders, but something has to give. [/QUOTE]
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