Hi y'all. The good news is that Ferb has been doing better for the past few months. Last year, he begged (seriously) me to get him an appointment with an anger management therapist. I think the straw for him was when he slammed his cell phone down and broke it. I refused to buy him another one. He has been willingly seeing the new therapist for over a year. I think it is truly helping him. The ugly is that over the summer I discovered that Ferb had been using my credit card to make unauthorized purchases for his X-box. The damage exceeded $4000. Granted, he'd been making these purchases for several years and it's on me that I didn't recognize what was happening sooner. Not finished yet. the cat posted for me.