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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 530909" data-attributes="member: 15796"><p>Most definitely pregnant. I knew as soon as I saw her - her breasts have swelled and that is a dead give away. She wouldn't let me take her to the OBGYN, because that is something she wants to do with him. I get that. She knows she has a major decision to make. She knows she has to either get clean and have the baby or terminate it and continue being a drug addict loser. She does have a clarity I have not heard before from her. She was honest and said she isn't positive what she wants to do. She admits drugging has been such a part of her life for so long. I explained treatment teaches you how to live with out it and can detox her safely. </p><p>It is her decision to make. I cannot make it for her. I can only give advice. I am thinking they may end up having the baby. A hole is positively thrilled about it and they are already discussing names. But, he still has her tucked away as the other woman and paying rent for her to have a place to stay and she is telling him that she needs more than just a "baby daddy". So, it is a very hard situation for her to be in. I told her I will support her decision no matter what she chooses. If she chooses to have this baby, I stressed to her, she HAS to get clean. </p><p>She is very open about telling people she is pregnant. She came right out and told the surgeon. Ugh. Anyhow, surgeon gave her an A on taking care of her wound. She has been doing it herself and he said she has been doing a really good job. That was good to hear. </p><p>I can honestly say, as SAD as it is, that pregnancy seems to agree with her. She was nice to everyone, pleasant, respectful and had a glow about her. Time will tell what is going to happen. I gave her the names of three OBGYNs near her and told her she has to make an appointment. </p><p></p><p>UGH. SUCH mixed feelings right now....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 530909, member: 15796"] Most definitely pregnant. I knew as soon as I saw her - her breasts have swelled and that is a dead give away. She wouldn't let me take her to the OBGYN, because that is something she wants to do with him. I get that. She knows she has a major decision to make. She knows she has to either get clean and have the baby or terminate it and continue being a drug addict loser. She does have a clarity I have not heard before from her. She was honest and said she isn't positive what she wants to do. She admits drugging has been such a part of her life for so long. I explained treatment teaches you how to live with out it and can detox her safely. It is her decision to make. I cannot make it for her. I can only give advice. I am thinking they may end up having the baby. A hole is positively thrilled about it and they are already discussing names. But, he still has her tucked away as the other woman and paying rent for her to have a place to stay and she is telling him that she needs more than just a "baby daddy". So, it is a very hard situation for her to be in. I told her I will support her decision no matter what she chooses. If she chooses to have this baby, I stressed to her, she HAS to get clean. She is very open about telling people she is pregnant. She came right out and told the surgeon. Ugh. Anyhow, surgeon gave her an A on taking care of her wound. She has been doing it herself and he said she has been doing a really good job. That was good to hear. I can honestly say, as SAD as it is, that pregnancy seems to agree with her. She was nice to everyone, pleasant, respectful and had a glow about her. Time will tell what is going to happen. I gave her the names of three OBGYNs near her and told her she has to make an appointment. UGH. SUCH mixed feelings right now.... [/QUOTE]
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