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<blockquote data-quote="LittleDudesMom" data-source="post: 120749" data-attributes="member: 805"><p>Vickie,</p><p> </p><p>many, many, many, hugs this morning. I am so saddened to read your post. Aly always touched a part of me, I'm not sure why. That she has gotten to this place, that she could be so violent with you who gave everything, is heartbreaking.</p><p> </p><p>I cannot imagine how much your heart is hurting right now, not to mention the physical pain of your arm.</p><p> </p><p>I think you've fought for Aly for so long that I cannot imagine you not doing that. But I guess if husband is not on the same page and will not get intervention, he's blocking Aly from the help she so desperately needs and not keeping you safe which is what part of his role as your partner should be.</p><p> </p><p>Not that I am making excuses, but I would have to guess that the addition of the three fosters added to Aly's inreased aggitation and aggression. I don't want you to give her a free pass. I don't expect you to live with violence. I think you need to think thru your choices and options. I think you have really given husband the opportunity to make things better in the past. He chose what happened in this situation by allowing Aly to stay in the home after she raised her hands to you. That to me is quite telling.</p><p> </p><p>Vickie, sit and think a few days about what is in everyone's best interest. You may decide that your initial gut instincts were totally correct. But you may also decide that another option is worth a try.</p><p> </p><p>Sometimes it's hard to make decisions that will affect the rest of our life when we are dealing with such emotional issues.</p><p> </p><p>I'm wishing you peace Vickie. This is a terrible place. I hope you are able to find peace in the knowledge that you have done everything you possibly could to help and love Aly. And you gave husband every chance to step up to the plate. You did what was required. Take a deep breath, take an extra nap, and please feel my toughts and prayers coming your way.</p><p> </p><p>Sharon</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="LittleDudesMom, post: 120749, member: 805"] Vickie, many, many, many, hugs this morning. I am so saddened to read your post. Aly always touched a part of me, I'm not sure why. That she has gotten to this place, that she could be so violent with you who gave everything, is heartbreaking. I cannot imagine how much your heart is hurting right now, not to mention the physical pain of your arm. I think you've fought for Aly for so long that I cannot imagine you not doing that. But I guess if husband is not on the same page and will not get intervention, he's blocking Aly from the help she so desperately needs and not keeping you safe which is what part of his role as your partner should be. Not that I am making excuses, but I would have to guess that the addition of the three fosters added to Aly's inreased aggitation and aggression. I don't want you to give her a free pass. I don't expect you to live with violence. I think you need to think thru your choices and options. I think you have really given husband the opportunity to make things better in the past. He chose what happened in this situation by allowing Aly to stay in the home after she raised her hands to you. That to me is quite telling. Vickie, sit and think a few days about what is in everyone's best interest. You may decide that your initial gut instincts were totally correct. But you may also decide that another option is worth a try. Sometimes it's hard to make decisions that will affect the rest of our life when we are dealing with such emotional issues. I'm wishing you peace Vickie. This is a terrible place. I hope you are able to find peace in the knowledge that you have done everything you possibly could to help and love Aly. And you gave husband every chance to step up to the plate. You did what was required. Take a deep breath, take an extra nap, and please feel my toughts and prayers coming your way. Sharon [/QUOTE]
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