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<blockquote data-quote="Shari" data-source="post: 381315" data-attributes="member: 1848"><p>K, I'm hearing you and I understand what you are saying. My hesitation with calling an IEP team meeting is that the IEP doesn't need to be addressed or changed in light of these incidents, it just needs to be followed. Obviously thus far, the IEP team hasn't been able to make that happen, so why continue to do what isn't working?</p><p>I will be following up with a letter, for sure. And I still haven't gotten my written confirmation of the 'no cuff and stuff'. So it might be a moot point, anyway.</p><p>But what's really eating my gut right now, even tho they claim they won't 'cuff and stuff', any acts of agression will still be reported to the juvenile authorities, as mandated by safe schools act. Which, don't get me wrong, I realize that's what should be happening. And the school can write "no action requested" on the reports, but juvie can still step in. And that's not even where my concern lies....what's eating my gut tonight is the fact that now that I am holding the school accountable for implementing the IEP, they are questioning Wee's ability to control himself and are telling me I'm too close to the situation and that I'm the problem...I have 2 MD's, a psychiatric doctor, the early intervention preschool, and his therapist who will argue that point hotly, but is that enough, if juvie does get involved, that they won't order a bunch of bs for Wee to fix "me" instead of focusing on what everyone agrees need to be done to help Wee? Which is basically what's in the IEP...redirect and head it off at the pass, long before it gets to the point of physical aggression...If Wee's staff are doing what they should, and super understands this, too, because she made a point of it, it wouldn't be getting to this level in the first place.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Shari, post: 381315, member: 1848"] K, I'm hearing you and I understand what you are saying. My hesitation with calling an IEP team meeting is that the IEP doesn't need to be addressed or changed in light of these incidents, it just needs to be followed. Obviously thus far, the IEP team hasn't been able to make that happen, so why continue to do what isn't working? I will be following up with a letter, for sure. And I still haven't gotten my written confirmation of the 'no cuff and stuff'. So it might be a moot point, anyway. But what's really eating my gut right now, even tho they claim they won't 'cuff and stuff', any acts of agression will still be reported to the juvenile authorities, as mandated by safe schools act. Which, don't get me wrong, I realize that's what should be happening. And the school can write "no action requested" on the reports, but juvie can still step in. And that's not even where my concern lies....what's eating my gut tonight is the fact that now that I am holding the school accountable for implementing the IEP, they are questioning Wee's ability to control himself and are telling me I'm too close to the situation and that I'm the problem...I have 2 MD's, a psychiatric doctor, the early intervention preschool, and his therapist who will argue that point hotly, but is that enough, if juvie does get involved, that they won't order a bunch of bs for Wee to fix "me" instead of focusing on what everyone agrees need to be done to help Wee? Which is basically what's in the IEP...redirect and head it off at the pass, long before it gets to the point of physical aggression...If Wee's staff are doing what they should, and super understands this, too, because she made a point of it, it wouldn't be getting to this level in the first place. [/QUOTE]
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