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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 277639" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>It will be a lot easier for him to lose 70 pounds, than for you to.</p><p></p><p>That's because he's a bloke. It's not fair, but they can lose weight more easily. Then the ratbags crow about it and say, "I could do it, why can't you?"</p><p></p><p>So a strong suggestion - if HE begins working on his weight loss, you will need to at the same time, to avoid the crowing.</p><p></p><p>Alternatively, shove him out to the chicken coop!</p><p></p><p>I lost the weight (not easy, but in other ways, easier than expected). Once motivated and with support, it can be done. Contrary to a lot of oninion, failure to lose weight and keep it off is NOT due to lack of willpower.</p><p></p><p>On the subject of needing displacement activity due to a lack of sex life - a couple I know had problems in this area. She wanted sex, he didn't. So instead of expending energy in sex, she gained weight. But he turned his energies into landscaping the garden. The last time I saw their place he was digging a long, deep and curving trench for a detailed series of pools for yet another water feature. All that was left of the yar was a series of stepping stones making their way through an elaborate series of gardens and "outdoor rooms" with fountains. The recent work - he was connecting them all with a series of waterfalls and canals.</p><p></p><p>He was thin and wiry, he burned up so much energy in the backyard.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 277639, member: 1991"] It will be a lot easier for him to lose 70 pounds, than for you to. That's because he's a bloke. It's not fair, but they can lose weight more easily. Then the ratbags crow about it and say, "I could do it, why can't you?" So a strong suggestion - if HE begins working on his weight loss, you will need to at the same time, to avoid the crowing. Alternatively, shove him out to the chicken coop! I lost the weight (not easy, but in other ways, easier than expected). Once motivated and with support, it can be done. Contrary to a lot of oninion, failure to lose weight and keep it off is NOT due to lack of willpower. On the subject of needing displacement activity due to a lack of sex life - a couple I know had problems in this area. She wanted sex, he didn't. So instead of expending energy in sex, she gained weight. But he turned his energies into landscaping the garden. The last time I saw their place he was digging a long, deep and curving trench for a detailed series of pools for yet another water feature. All that was left of the yar was a series of stepping stones making their way through an elaborate series of gardens and "outdoor rooms" with fountains. The recent work - he was connecting them all with a series of waterfalls and canals. He was thin and wiry, he burned up so much energy in the backyard. Marg [/QUOTE]
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