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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 169358" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>OH this just gets better and better......I am seriously having my phone turned off. (We can live without the chaos) and we both have cells. </p><p> </p><p>When I got home DF said he had a very nice conversation with Dude's cw. (said sarcastically) </p><p> </p><p>He started out by asking the man WHAT he thought he was doing calling ME at work, asking in Dude's place for the money. </p><p> </p><p>CW denied it - said that he never said that - and that Star is confused. (yeah really wonder why?) then he said that he called me to ask me if Dude could WORK at our home to make some money. </p><p></p><p>NO NO NO - that is NOT what he said. He flat out asked me for the cash for Dude. I TOLD Him - we had work. He said Dude told him he's not working here. </p><p> </p><p>Okay SO I called Dude - figured I'm not going to sleep at 6:00 PM for the likes of HIM.....</p><p> </p><p>Dude said - cw is whacked. That he NEVER NEVER EVER told cw to ask me for money. He went on to say that the CW asked him yesterday if he could get the money from US? Dude said NO way - they do not have it, and even if they did - they would not bail me out again. </p><p>So I asked dude WHAT is going on? He said "Momma I messed up, I didn't work when I could have - and now I'm in trouble, but I never asked cw to call you for money for me - I would do that myself, I've never asked anyone else to ask you for money - and I'm not starting now. </p><p> </p><p>I said - cw told me you were refusing services after 18 - </p><p> </p><p>Dude said - NO cw asked me if I wanted to be a client until I'm 21 - but he said it like I was going to be in diapers or some stuff - making fun of me. And I said "Not if you're going to be there, I want to move out and get my own place eventually I can't live in foster care forever - and my parents are moving in a few months." </p><p>He SWEARS he never said the stuff this cw told me - and then it occurred to us......that if the cw's client - Dude GETS INTO TROUBLE because HE has NOT been following up with the foster family and making sure he has a court ordered job - this could get HIM into trouble......so HE essentially asked the $$ question to see if Dude was jerking him around - I think.....maybe. ????? </p><p> </p><p>I dunno. But Dude said he has been working - he has a little money - and if he ends up in jail - it's on him. He knows no one will bail him out. So he's trying to work now -probation check in to get as much as he can instead of going in broke. </p><p>Maybe that will help he said. And I do not know. </p><p> </p><p>He said Pootie was fine - IN THE HOUSE, sleeping. And I left it go at that. </p><p> </p><p>I told him that the sadest part of my calling was that I actually believed that he DID ask someone - to call his poor, tired, broken down mom for money - when he is 17, healthy and capable of working 12 hours a day. </p><p> </p><p>He said - and swears he did not. Isn't it sad when you don't know WHO to believe any more? and our cw has gotten the story wrong a LOT - so it's not inconceivable. </p><p> </p><p>Honestly - when these judges give out these ridiculous sentences and fines WHOM do they think will help these kids at 16, no education, no job, no car.......I'm writing the 1st judge a letter......and I'm giving him a piece of my mind. Really really. </p><p> </p><p>Thanks</p><p>star the weary</p><p> </p><p>I'm going to 1 up Ross Green - and write </p><p> </p><p>Parenting the explosive parent. </p><p>A childs guide on how to NOT peeve off your parents.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 169358, member: 4964"] OH this just gets better and better......I am seriously having my phone turned off. (We can live without the chaos) and we both have cells. When I got home DF said he had a very nice conversation with Dude's cw. (said sarcastically) He started out by asking the man WHAT he thought he was doing calling ME at work, asking in Dude's place for the money. CW denied it - said that he never said that - and that Star is confused. (yeah really wonder why?) then he said that he called me to ask me if Dude could WORK at our home to make some money. NO NO NO - that is NOT what he said. He flat out asked me for the cash for Dude. I TOLD Him - we had work. He said Dude told him he's not working here. Okay SO I called Dude - figured I'm not going to sleep at 6:00 PM for the likes of HIM..... Dude said - cw is whacked. That he NEVER NEVER EVER told cw to ask me for money. He went on to say that the CW asked him yesterday if he could get the money from US? Dude said NO way - they do not have it, and even if they did - they would not bail me out again. So I asked dude WHAT is going on? He said "Momma I messed up, I didn't work when I could have - and now I'm in trouble, but I never asked cw to call you for money for me - I would do that myself, I've never asked anyone else to ask you for money - and I'm not starting now. I said - cw told me you were refusing services after 18 - Dude said - NO cw asked me if I wanted to be a client until I'm 21 - but he said it like I was going to be in diapers or some stuff - making fun of me. And I said "Not if you're going to be there, I want to move out and get my own place eventually I can't live in foster care forever - and my parents are moving in a few months." He SWEARS he never said the stuff this cw told me - and then it occurred to us......that if the cw's client - Dude GETS INTO TROUBLE because HE has NOT been following up with the foster family and making sure he has a court ordered job - this could get HIM into trouble......so HE essentially asked the $$ question to see if Dude was jerking him around - I think.....maybe. ????? I dunno. But Dude said he has been working - he has a little money - and if he ends up in jail - it's on him. He knows no one will bail him out. So he's trying to work now -probation check in to get as much as he can instead of going in broke. Maybe that will help he said. And I do not know. He said Pootie was fine - IN THE HOUSE, sleeping. And I left it go at that. I told him that the sadest part of my calling was that I actually believed that he DID ask someone - to call his poor, tired, broken down mom for money - when he is 17, healthy and capable of working 12 hours a day. He said - and swears he did not. Isn't it sad when you don't know WHO to believe any more? and our cw has gotten the story wrong a LOT - so it's not inconceivable. Honestly - when these judges give out these ridiculous sentences and fines WHOM do they think will help these kids at 16, no education, no job, no car.......I'm writing the 1st judge a letter......and I'm giving him a piece of my mind. Really really. Thanks star the weary I'm going to 1 up Ross Green - and write Parenting the explosive parent. A childs guide on how to NOT peeve off your parents. [/QUOTE]
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