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The son who disowned his family (us) comes back to haunt my daughter.
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 565917" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>MWM</p><p></p><p>It's awful that ex put J into that spot. </p><p></p><p>S somewhere along the way developed a warped sense of love, success, and right and wrong. I am certain this happened long before he joined your family. Somewhere along the line he became convinced money is the center of the universe. Money can buy him love, friends, and happiness.........who knows, might even buy his way into heaven. I know he appears to be a religious fanatic, but I've long since suspected this image of a pious man is just that, an image. If one is "in" with members of a church (members who happen to have connections in certain areas), it is a boost to their success. Money is S's God because he truly believes with enough success and money he will never be vulnerable again. </p><p></p><p>I've seen this in the behavior and the way he talks in your posts over the years. Even with J.........what did he talk about? How much money he makes, how successful he is, and that his 3 yr old (poor kid) goes to a prestigious school. It appears that was put out there to put J down and make her feel bad. I think he uses it as his shield to build himself up. He has an extremely low self image. A subconscious attempt to seek approval, because he truly believes he needs no ones approval. Of course if that were true they'd have talked about the weather or something totally different than him bragging about his feats. </p><p></p><p>J should not ever feel less than S in any way. She has found real love in G. She is doing what she wants with her life and is happy. Sadly, S will probably never know real happiness or love. </p><p></p><p>As for your ex still being in S's life, could be as simple as well......c'mon, looks a bit suspicious if a "christian" can't manage some sort of relationship with at least one member of their family. Being a christian, ex was the obvious choice. It's all in the image. </p><p></p><p>I doubt J will ever allow her dad to guilt her into having any contact with S again. Which is the best thing to come out of this.</p><p></p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 565917, member: 84"] MWM It's awful that ex put J into that spot. S somewhere along the way developed a warped sense of love, success, and right and wrong. I am certain this happened long before he joined your family. Somewhere along the line he became convinced money is the center of the universe. Money can buy him love, friends, and happiness.........who knows, might even buy his way into heaven. I know he appears to be a religious fanatic, but I've long since suspected this image of a pious man is just that, an image. If one is "in" with members of a church (members who happen to have connections in certain areas), it is a boost to their success. Money is S's God because he truly believes with enough success and money he will never be vulnerable again. I've seen this in the behavior and the way he talks in your posts over the years. Even with J.........what did he talk about? How much money he makes, how successful he is, and that his 3 yr old (poor kid) goes to a prestigious school. It appears that was put out there to put J down and make her feel bad. I think he uses it as his shield to build himself up. He has an extremely low self image. A subconscious attempt to seek approval, because he truly believes he needs no ones approval. Of course if that were true they'd have talked about the weather or something totally different than him bragging about his feats. J should not ever feel less than S in any way. She has found real love in G. She is doing what she wants with her life and is happy. Sadly, S will probably never know real happiness or love. As for your ex still being in S's life, could be as simple as well......c'mon, looks a bit suspicious if a "christian" can't manage some sort of relationship with at least one member of their family. Being a christian, ex was the obvious choice. It's all in the image. I doubt J will ever allow her dad to guilt her into having any contact with S again. Which is the best thing to come out of this. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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