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The son who disowned his family (us) comes back to haunt my daughter.
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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 565999" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>I can see that he is a really sad case. Attachment disorder and all, sounds so.egocentric. It makes me so sad for you, probably hits a nerve for me a little.too. Not that they're at.all the same (q and s) but the hopes.that have to change so.much after giving so much love. Accepting they are truly limited in giving it back. Did he ever seem bonded at all to you? Just curious. </p><p></p><p>I was thinking though, if he was a girl and the spouse was male (which seems sexist and so.maybe his wife is emotionally thos.way...abusive) I'd say easily that his spouse seemed controlling and abusive. She took advantage of a person who was super vulnerable in some ways. His religion does sound cult like and I'll never understand "Christians " who judge others. All religions have rules but I was taught a big rule was judge not. It is one life belief I wish I lived better, but really do try hard to follow. </p><p></p><p>I've never been in a clique or gone to one kind of church. Even as a kid I had friends from the cheer leaders to the "burn outs" (back then that just meant hard party types or those that may experiment with drugs) though I didn't do any of either. I just thought individuals were interesting. (by the way, one guy many of you would be inspired by was a nice kid who got totally messed up....now is a minister and a super guy, some success stories do happen). It just seems when encouraged to cut.off.others who don't follow, that is abuse and.shady to.me. </p><p></p><p>I feel so sad for your sweet pastry chef. I sure admire her devoution in.makimg.the attempt. She sure didn't deserve that. And, hope you dont mind this, but, I'm really glad you're not with ex. </p><p>Glad you vented. That would make my brain spin.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 565999, member: 12886"] I can see that he is a really sad case. Attachment disorder and all, sounds so.egocentric. It makes me so sad for you, probably hits a nerve for me a little.too. Not that they're at.all the same (q and s) but the hopes.that have to change so.much after giving so much love. Accepting they are truly limited in giving it back. Did he ever seem bonded at all to you? Just curious. I was thinking though, if he was a girl and the spouse was male (which seems sexist and so.maybe his wife is emotionally thos.way...abusive) I'd say easily that his spouse seemed controlling and abusive. She took advantage of a person who was super vulnerable in some ways. His religion does sound cult like and I'll never understand "Christians " who judge others. All religions have rules but I was taught a big rule was judge not. It is one life belief I wish I lived better, but really do try hard to follow. I've never been in a clique or gone to one kind of church. Even as a kid I had friends from the cheer leaders to the "burn outs" (back then that just meant hard party types or those that may experiment with drugs) though I didn't do any of either. I just thought individuals were interesting. (by the way, one guy many of you would be inspired by was a nice kid who got totally messed up....now is a minister and a super guy, some success stories do happen). It just seems when encouraged to cut.off.others who don't follow, that is abuse and.shady to.me. I feel so sad for your sweet pastry chef. I sure admire her devoution in.makimg.the attempt. She sure didn't deserve that. And, hope you dont mind this, but, I'm really glad you're not with ex. Glad you vented. That would make my brain spin. [/QUOTE]
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