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The win and the loss
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 676274" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Thank you, Serenity</p><p></p><p>I have grown to treasure you and to respect you very much over these months. I understand better now that you explain it. </p><p></p><p>I do believe in myself and always have. But I have done so in spite of being treated badly, not cared for well or enough. I am always on the ready to turn against myself and to accuse myself as not enough, not good enough or worth enough, because that is what I learned based upon my life as a child. No matter what I achieve or have or am, there is always that deep hole. I was not loved in the way that I needed. Then. It does not have to be now.</p><p></p><p>As you explain it I can see that it is a "tape" but it does not represent a reality that exists now. It is more of a memory, one that I need to acknowledge and learn to discredit. Actually, having written this, I feel closer to my son who struggles with the same thing.</p><p></p><p>Thank you, Serenity.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 676274, member: 18958"] Thank you, Serenity I have grown to treasure you and to respect you very much over these months. I understand better now that you explain it. I do believe in myself and always have. But I have done so in spite of being treated badly, not cared for well or enough. I am always on the ready to turn against myself and to accuse myself as not enough, not good enough or worth enough, because that is what I learned based upon my life as a child. No matter what I achieve or have or am, there is always that deep hole. I was not loved in the way that I needed. Then. It does not have to be now. As you explain it I can see that it is a "tape" but it does not represent a reality that exists now. It is more of a memory, one that I need to acknowledge and learn to discredit. Actually, having written this, I feel closer to my son who struggles with the same thing. Thank you, Serenity. COPA [/QUOTE]
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