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The win and the loss
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 676901" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Sadly for your sister, she still must feel that in order to feel OK herself, she must make you in some way bad or less than.</p><p></p><p>Still she does not recognize that the more she does so, the weaker she is. She is choosing weakness and moral laziness to not stop to see that through her actions and choices she implicates herself, representing herself as morally corrupt and weak.</p><p></p><p>It has nothing at all to do with you, Serenity. No matter what was done or said in the past each of us is responsible for who we are right now. You are choosing to take your marbles and go home. Even if you can "win" the game the way it is played it will never be a win you want or need. Until your sister sees that the entire game is in her head, she will continue to depend upon you. And get madder and madder. Put she is playing alone now. How sad that is, for her.</p><p></p><p>Now, you can look at this another way. That by our constant chewing and chewing upon the residues of our family that are in our heads, we are doing the same thing. Refusing, still, to accept our lovely lives and let the past go. I will think about this.</p><p></p><p>Serenity, you have decided to let the past go, recognizing what is beautiful in what you have. Everything that came before pales in comparison.</p><p></p><p>COPA</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 676901, member: 18958"] Sadly for your sister, she still must feel that in order to feel OK herself, she must make you in some way bad or less than. Still she does not recognize that the more she does so, the weaker she is. She is choosing weakness and moral laziness to not stop to see that through her actions and choices she implicates herself, representing herself as morally corrupt and weak. It has nothing at all to do with you, Serenity. No matter what was done or said in the past each of us is responsible for who we are right now. You are choosing to take your marbles and go home. Even if you can "win" the game the way it is played it will never be a win you want or need. Until your sister sees that the entire game is in her head, she will continue to depend upon you. And get madder and madder. Put she is playing alone now. How sad that is, for her. Now, you can look at this another way. That by our constant chewing and chewing upon the residues of our family that are in our heads, we are doing the same thing. Refusing, still, to accept our lovely lives and let the past go. I will think about this. Serenity, you have decided to let the past go, recognizing what is beautiful in what you have. Everything that came before pales in comparison. COPA [/QUOTE]
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