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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 743716" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am in bad shape. We go to bed early. About 1030 the phone awoke me from a deep sleep. It was J. There were two calls. Both interrupted. The weather is horrible here and he was out in the elements. He said he could barely talk, was hysterical and yelling, and the phone was not functioning. I could hear the gales of wind. Here where I live two hours south there was hail. </p><p></p><p>When the second call was interrupted I made the decision to turn off the phone and try to go back to sleep. My thinking was: any solution to this situation was not in my hands. He would have to solve it. </p><p></p><p>I was afraid he would get sick, but that made me mad. He has driven every part of this narrative (which he has imposed upon me.) The only thing I did was to step out of it to the extent that I could.</p><p></p><p>I texted him just now to tell him I hoped he was safe and secure and asked him to let me know.</p><p></p><p>I will not rescue him from this. Because it is so avoidable, and was so avoidable. He had a safe and warm place to live for minimal money and he chose to foul his nest. He has had four months to decide to reverse course. He has known bad weather was coming. He is not stupid. </p><p></p><p>If I have to turn off my phone in order to get through this, I will. </p><p></p><p>It makes me mad. Because he chose to call me to wake me up so that I would share his discomfort. How many other grown sons would be so uncaring and impervious to the feelings of a mother, that they would expose her to this distress?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 743716, member: 18958"] I am in bad shape. We go to bed early. About 1030 the phone awoke me from a deep sleep. It was J. There were two calls. Both interrupted. The weather is horrible here and he was out in the elements. He said he could barely talk, was hysterical and yelling, and the phone was not functioning. I could hear the gales of wind. Here where I live two hours south there was hail. When the second call was interrupted I made the decision to turn off the phone and try to go back to sleep. My thinking was: any solution to this situation was not in my hands. He would have to solve it. I was afraid he would get sick, but that made me mad. He has driven every part of this narrative (which he has imposed upon me.) The only thing I did was to step out of it to the extent that I could. I texted him just now to tell him I hoped he was safe and secure and asked him to let me know. I will not rescue him from this. Because it is so avoidable, and was so avoidable. He had a safe and warm place to live for minimal money and he chose to foul his nest. He has had four months to decide to reverse course. He has known bad weather was coming. He is not stupid. If I have to turn off my phone in order to get through this, I will. It makes me mad. Because he chose to call me to wake me up so that I would share his discomfort. How many other grown sons would be so uncaring and impervious to the feelings of a mother, that they would expose her to this distress? [/QUOTE]
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