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<blockquote data-quote="Triedntrue" data-source="post: 744028" data-attributes="member: 21499"><p>Copa you have given me such wonderful advice. I am not as eloquent as you but you know what you need to do and you know how hard it is. . we all know how manipulative our kids are and how difficult they are. Yet we love them anyway. Deep down they love us .But they use our love to manipulate us. We have to stop allowing them to do this to us. I sometimes think the biggest and hardest thing we need to learn is how to wait. Wait for them to realize they need to do it themselves then wait for them to do it. Waiting takes away their power to manipulate us because we don't jump in to fix it like we want to. When they were babies we waited and waited until they decided that they wanted to walk we waited until they learn to talk now we have to wait until they learn to do things on their own without our help. You can cheer them on let them know we are proud when they do it but we can't do it for them.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Triedntrue, post: 744028, member: 21499"] Copa you have given me such wonderful advice. I am not as eloquent as you but you know what you need to do and you know how hard it is. . we all know how manipulative our kids are and how difficult they are. Yet we love them anyway. Deep down they love us .But they use our love to manipulate us. We have to stop allowing them to do this to us. I sometimes think the biggest and hardest thing we need to learn is how to wait. Wait for them to realize they need to do it themselves then wait for them to do it. Waiting takes away their power to manipulate us because we don't jump in to fix it like we want to. When they were babies we waited and waited until they decided that they wanted to walk we waited until they learn to talk now we have to wait until they learn to do things on their own without our help. You can cheer them on let them know we are proud when they do it but we can't do it for them. [/QUOTE]
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