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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 456468" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>Thanks ladies.</p><p></p><p>If I could afford an attorney, I'd have one. I'd currently be looking into one, but now I can't even pay for one - too far into debt (stupid transmission!). Even if court grants my request for husband to pay, it still has to get paid up front.</p><p></p><p>I am trying to do this in a way so there's the least friction for ME. Unfortunately going up against this koi, that is not possible.</p><p></p><p>Wednesday will certainly be interesting. I just wish there was more "pro-se" (do it yourself) information out there. There is a lot of very good detailed info, but it all assumes that BOTH parties will fill out the forms that they are supposed to. Yeah, I always seem to be the exception to the rule.</p><p></p><p>by the way, <strong>Haozi</strong>, I have heard of FL being difficult, but there are ways around it. There should be an agency in your state that handles child support. Here, it's the Department of Revenue. Go apply for CS directly through them, get it established. What happens is that HE ends up going to court in FL and you get to appear by phone. At least this is how the atty I consulted with explained it to me. Once you have an order established, it doesn't have to be part of the divorce. I might be going this route. I'll also check with the notary at the bank and see if the convoluted idea floating in my head would fly. </p><p></p><p>And yes, I'm finally doing this because I do deserve better! So do my kids. Even if they don't get to see their crazy Dad (truly his choice), they deserve the added financial support.</p><p></p><p>Thanks for letting me vent. Now to start preparing for Wednesday.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 456468, member: 11965"] Thanks ladies. If I could afford an attorney, I'd have one. I'd currently be looking into one, but now I can't even pay for one - too far into debt (stupid transmission!). Even if court grants my request for husband to pay, it still has to get paid up front. I am trying to do this in a way so there's the least friction for ME. Unfortunately going up against this koi, that is not possible. Wednesday will certainly be interesting. I just wish there was more "pro-se" (do it yourself) information out there. There is a lot of very good detailed info, but it all assumes that BOTH parties will fill out the forms that they are supposed to. Yeah, I always seem to be the exception to the rule. by the way, [B]Haozi[/B], I have heard of FL being difficult, but there are ways around it. There should be an agency in your state that handles child support. Here, it's the Department of Revenue. Go apply for CS directly through them, get it established. What happens is that HE ends up going to court in FL and you get to appear by phone. At least this is how the atty I consulted with explained it to me. Once you have an order established, it doesn't have to be part of the divorce. I might be going this route. I'll also check with the notary at the bank and see if the convoluted idea floating in my head would fly. And yes, I'm finally doing this because I do deserve better! So do my kids. Even if they don't get to see their crazy Dad (truly his choice), they deserve the added financial support. Thanks for letting me vent. Now to start preparing for Wednesday. [/QUOTE]
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