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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 415063"><p>I missed much of this story and it sounds like a "beeaauutt"</p><p>It's been my experience that relatives are often clueless, accusing, blaming and enabling.</p><p>However, sometimes if they personally deal with our difficult children...they see the light.</p><p>The title of your post was great.</p><p>They (difficult children) don't get it.</p><p>Relatives/friends don't get it.</p><p>We have to make sure that WE GET IT. What's the lesson in all of this? I like what the 12 step programs teach. We didn't cause it and we can't cure it....etc.</p><p>Life moves on.</p><p>Hold your head up high knowing you did the best you could.....and forget about anyone else who wishes to speak ill of you or cause chaos in your life. You are right....who cares?</p><p>Move forward at 100 mph shaking out the emotions and the questionning...just push forward.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 415063"] I missed much of this story and it sounds like a "beeaauutt" It's been my experience that relatives are often clueless, accusing, blaming and enabling. However, sometimes if they personally deal with our difficult children...they see the light. The title of your post was great. They (difficult children) don't get it. Relatives/friends don't get it. We have to make sure that WE GET IT. What's the lesson in all of this? I like what the 12 step programs teach. We didn't cause it and we can't cure it....etc. Life moves on. Hold your head up high knowing you did the best you could.....and forget about anyone else who wishes to speak ill of you or cause chaos in your life. You are right....who cares? Move forward at 100 mph shaking out the emotions and the questionning...just push forward. [/QUOTE]
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