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<blockquote data-quote="Hanging-On" data-source="post: 101345" data-attributes="member: 2325"><p>Thanks guys. When I dropped off easy child at his in-home pre-school (he has that in the morning, and then Special Education pre-school in the afternoon), I started telling the care giver and just started crying about how the couselors always rag on me becuase I'm not doing the routine and that THIS flips them out and causes the chaos, and if ONLY I stuck to the routine everything would be fine. These doctors, counselors, BMSP, teachers, other mothers, etc. need to live my life for a month and see what they say afterward. I say a month becuase there's always a honeymoon period. So they need to do my ENTIRE life for a month, and then talk to me.</p><p></p><p>I'm so tired of being ragged on by these professionals. easy child's care giver always tells me that she is absolutely amazed by me, and that I'm not in a mental break-down daily. She has taken care of both of them (together) for me sometimes, and she's just amazed that I do it by myself. She's one of 2 people of actually voice this stuff to me, everyone else just points a finger at me and say I'm screwing up somehow somewhere. No one can continue with that type of pressure, and it doesn't make me all warm and fuzzy with these people when I know what they're going to say.</p><p></p><p>About leaving easy child in summer clothes, I'm scared to do that. With my luck the school will call DCF on me and I'd have them to deal with to, in addition to all the other professionals in our life. But I have thought about it. I have sent both of them to school in their pj's before.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hanging-On, post: 101345, member: 2325"] Thanks guys. When I dropped off easy child at his in-home pre-school (he has that in the morning, and then Special Education pre-school in the afternoon), I started telling the care giver and just started crying about how the couselors always rag on me becuase I'm not doing the routine and that THIS flips them out and causes the chaos, and if ONLY I stuck to the routine everything would be fine. These doctors, counselors, BMSP, teachers, other mothers, etc. need to live my life for a month and see what they say afterward. I say a month becuase there's always a honeymoon period. So they need to do my ENTIRE life for a month, and then talk to me. I'm so tired of being ragged on by these professionals. easy child's care giver always tells me that she is absolutely amazed by me, and that I'm not in a mental break-down daily. She has taken care of both of them (together) for me sometimes, and she's just amazed that I do it by myself. She's one of 2 people of actually voice this stuff to me, everyone else just points a finger at me and say I'm screwing up somehow somewhere. No one can continue with that type of pressure, and it doesn't make me all warm and fuzzy with these people when I know what they're going to say. About leaving easy child in summer clothes, I'm scared to do that. With my luck the school will call DCF on me and I'd have them to deal with to, in addition to all the other professionals in our life. But I have thought about it. I have sent both of them to school in their pj's before. [/QUOTE]
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