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They sabotage orgainization & routine.
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<blockquote data-quote="mrscatinthehat" data-source="post: 101382" data-attributes="member: 2063"><p>The other thing is let the providers in your life be aware they aren't helping. Of course you might want to be careful how you address this (as some get touchy). Let them know you are trying. Remind them (as they sometimes also forget) you are a person with feelings (and entitled to them also). Be assertive. Remind them you are seeking help with the kids. You are willing to try (as obviously you are) to do what they recommend but that sometimes even the best laid plans don't work. You do not have to be nagged. If your providers are not working with you they are working against you (you might remind them of that also). Because when it comes down to it, you know your kids and if what they recommend just doesn't work then you all need another plan.</p><p></p><p>Don't be so hard on yourself.</p><p></p><p>Beth</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mrscatinthehat, post: 101382, member: 2063"] The other thing is let the providers in your life be aware they aren't helping. Of course you might want to be careful how you address this (as some get touchy). Let them know you are trying. Remind them (as they sometimes also forget) you are a person with feelings (and entitled to them also). Be assertive. Remind them you are seeking help with the kids. You are willing to try (as obviously you are) to do what they recommend but that sometimes even the best laid plans don't work. You do not have to be nagged. If your providers are not working with you they are working against you (you might remind them of that also). Because when it comes down to it, you know your kids and if what they recommend just doesn't work then you all need another plan. Don't be so hard on yourself. Beth [/QUOTE]
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