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<blockquote data-quote="Hanging-On" data-source="post: 101736" data-attributes="member: 2325"><p>Meow,</p><p></p><p>Great reply. thanks. I'm going to try and internalize what you said. I've always felt like they are one step away from DCF, and that makes me very nervous and scared about not doing EVERYTHING they say cuz they'll say I'm the problem and take the boys. Probably "way out there thinking", but I can't shake that feeling underneath the surface. Does any one know what I mean about that? I try not to think about it, but when they came every week I just feel like I'm being analysed. </p><p></p><p>So new Moto try: Their suggestions, not orders...relax about what they think.</p><p></p><p></p><p>OH, and we got out in time this morning by easy child and me TOTALLY being neglected. difficult child got ALL the attention and help. I didn't shower, put on yesterdays clothes (I'm off today, that's why). easy child wore pj's to school, didn't brush his teeth, and I bagged everything for him to change over at the in-home pre-school/daycare ladies house. I really wanted to see what could be done, and what drives us over the time limit. And my needs and easy child's needs are what drives us over....so, once again difficult child get's all the energy, attention, help, etc. and we get nothing....this is the way it always is....ALWAYS. So that's why I'm trying to give me and easy child some energy and attention, becuase we deserve it. But the truth is I just don't have the time. Sad, isn't it.</p><p></p><p>Oh, I always remembered that I'm a morning person. I wake up, take a shower and coffee, and I'm zipping all over in lightening speed. But at night I'm dragging, and it's hard to do extra stuff. That's why so much is done in the morning.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hanging-On, post: 101736, member: 2325"] Meow, Great reply. thanks. I'm going to try and internalize what you said. I've always felt like they are one step away from DCF, and that makes me very nervous and scared about not doing EVERYTHING they say cuz they'll say I'm the problem and take the boys. Probably "way out there thinking", but I can't shake that feeling underneath the surface. Does any one know what I mean about that? I try not to think about it, but when they came every week I just feel like I'm being analysed. So new Moto try: Their suggestions, not orders...relax about what they think. OH, and we got out in time this morning by easy child and me TOTALLY being neglected. difficult child got ALL the attention and help. I didn't shower, put on yesterdays clothes (I'm off today, that's why). easy child wore pj's to school, didn't brush his teeth, and I bagged everything for him to change over at the in-home pre-school/daycare ladies house. I really wanted to see what could be done, and what drives us over the time limit. And my needs and easy child's needs are what drives us over....so, once again difficult child get's all the energy, attention, help, etc. and we get nothing....this is the way it always is....ALWAYS. So that's why I'm trying to give me and easy child some energy and attention, becuase we deserve it. But the truth is I just don't have the time. Sad, isn't it. Oh, I always remembered that I'm a morning person. I wake up, take a shower and coffee, and I'm zipping all over in lightening speed. But at night I'm dragging, and it's hard to do extra stuff. That's why so much is done in the morning. [/QUOTE]
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