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<blockquote data-quote="busywend" data-source="post: 87730" data-attributes="member: 391"><p>Stands, how are you today? </p><p></p><p>I want you to know that nobody minimizes the pain you feel. You have a right to that pain. It hurts to know your child has such a difficult life. </p><p></p><p>The point we are trying to get you to see is that you have to stop doing things for him. Period. He has to take this on if he is ever to get better. If he is ever to get clean, it has to be HIM that does it. </p><p>By doing things for him, you are not helping him. It may have been necessary at 16, but not at 24. </p><p></p><p>So, we know your pain is real and justified, but you must channel it in another way. </p><p></p><p>HUGS!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="busywend, post: 87730, member: 391"] Stands, how are you today? I want you to know that nobody minimizes the pain you feel. You have a right to that pain. It hurts to know your child has such a difficult life. The point we are trying to get you to see is that you have to stop doing things for him. Period. He has to take this on if he is ever to get better. If he is ever to get clean, it has to be HIM that does it. By doing things for him, you are not helping him. It may have been necessary at 16, but not at 24. So, we know your pain is real and justified, but you must channel it in another way. HUGS! [/QUOTE]
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