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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 658547" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>I'm glad you are venting and getting your emotions out. I completely agree with the others that have suggested Al Anon, please find a meeting and start going.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Who cares what other people think. They have not lived through the pain and chaos you have. I remember a time when someone I knew said to me "how can you be so cruel and allow your son to be homeless" I looked them straight in the eyes and said "I do not have any power over the decisions my son makes, if he chooses to be homeless then so be it"</p><p>I will not give any energy to what others think about me.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry that your heart is breaking over your little grandson. I can only imagine how hard that was to drop him off while he was crying.</p><p></p><p>There are no easy answers to this. What I can tell you is you have to put yourself first. You are 61 and should be enjoying your life instead of being sucked into your daughters drama and chaos. That is the choice you have to make for yourself. I know you love your grandson and you are not able to raise him, that being said, to keep his best interest at heart do you feel he is better off with your daughter or would he be better off with someone else? I don't know all the ins and outs of foster care but you might still be able to see him. It doesn't hurt to call child services and discuss it with someone.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there and please keep posting. Never feel like you post to much.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS)) to you........................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 658547, member: 18516"] I'm glad you are venting and getting your emotions out. I completely agree with the others that have suggested Al Anon, please find a meeting and start going. Who cares what other people think. They have not lived through the pain and chaos you have. I remember a time when someone I knew said to me "how can you be so cruel and allow your son to be homeless" I looked them straight in the eyes and said "I do not have any power over the decisions my son makes, if he chooses to be homeless then so be it" I will not give any energy to what others think about me. I am so sorry that your heart is breaking over your little grandson. I can only imagine how hard that was to drop him off while he was crying. There are no easy answers to this. What I can tell you is you have to put yourself first. You are 61 and should be enjoying your life instead of being sucked into your daughters drama and chaos. That is the choice you have to make for yourself. I know you love your grandson and you are not able to raise him, that being said, to keep his best interest at heart do you feel he is better off with your daughter or would he be better off with someone else? I don't know all the ins and outs of foster care but you might still be able to see him. It doesn't hurt to call child services and discuss it with someone. Hang in there and please keep posting. Never feel like you post to much. ((HUGS)) to you........................ [/QUOTE]
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