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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 723363" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I think it is normal for even two adults who love each other very much to have trouble living together/staying together. The adult wants control of her life and in someone else's house, the owner is in control, sets the rules, as a parent can even fall back on mother/child dynamics.</p><p></p><p>I think difficult kids with no jobs or motivation want to live wuth us...not becsuse they love us and want to be close to us (although I know they do love us on good days) but more to have comfort and use their money, wherever it comes from, on drugs. </p><p>I think difficult kids and you, GN, are two seperate animals. Healthy adults prefer autonomy. Every day. It is hard to ever feel we dont have that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 723363, member: 1550"] I think it is normal for even two adults who love each other very much to have trouble living together/staying together. The adult wants control of her life and in someone else's house, the owner is in control, sets the rules, as a parent can even fall back on mother/child dynamics. I think difficult kids with no jobs or motivation want to live wuth us...not becsuse they love us and want to be close to us (although I know they do love us on good days) but more to have comfort and use their money, wherever it comes from, on drugs. I think difficult kids and you, GN, are two seperate animals. Healthy adults prefer autonomy. Every day. It is hard to ever feel we dont have that. [/QUOTE]
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