I think this is very sad, what he did. While he may manifestly say his contact was about marijuana, I think this is a ruse. Something in him is wanting to connect with you, and the only way he can do it is to taunt you with a stick. I don't think it is to hurt you. I think more than that it's because he's afraid to engage in any real way. It's like the stick is a way to protect himself. I think your kind and gracious notes to him, asking for nothing, just from care, are getting to him. I wish he could do better Tanya. He can't. Still. I'm sorry.
