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This is probably the better spot - and L
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<blockquote data-quote="Mattsmom277" data-source="post: 301416" data-attributes="member: 4264"><p>Boy. I remember when easy child's father and I were together. He wouldn't move out, but he sure made my life miserable. That was the start of a serious panic/anxiety disorder for me. </p><p>I remember asking him one day, through serious frustration :</p><p>"You say you won't go. That you love me. When I ask why, you say because I am the mother of your child. Well lets move past that. Tell me something you actually admire or enjoy about me"</p><p></p><p>His response I kid you not took deep thought (picture far away look of ponderance and wracking his pea sized flipping brain). After several drawn out minutes, he responded:</p><p>"You're reliable".</p><p></p><p>Don't let the door hit your butt on the way out was pretty much my nicey nice version of what kind of response that got from me!</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry L is sticking her nose in this and stirring it all up for you again. I am another chiming in that you have worked to make peace with this in your life and she needs to butt out. I'm sorry she can't see the forest for the trees.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there (((hugs)))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mattsmom277, post: 301416, member: 4264"] Boy. I remember when easy child's father and I were together. He wouldn't move out, but he sure made my life miserable. That was the start of a serious panic/anxiety disorder for me. I remember asking him one day, through serious frustration : "You say you won't go. That you love me. When I ask why, you say because I am the mother of your child. Well lets move past that. Tell me something you actually admire or enjoy about me" His response I kid you not took deep thought (picture far away look of ponderance and wracking his pea sized flipping brain). After several drawn out minutes, he responded: "You're reliable". Don't let the door hit your butt on the way out was pretty much my nicey nice version of what kind of response that got from me! I'm sorry L is sticking her nose in this and stirring it all up for you again. I am another chiming in that you have worked to make peace with this in your life and she needs to butt out. I'm sorry she can't see the forest for the trees. Hang in there (((hugs))) [/QUOTE]
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