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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 249724" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>You know, I wonder,now that difficult child will be on medicaid which might pay for more than my provate insurance, if I went into court with things in writing showing that if difficult child wasn't on probation, he would qualify for X, Y and Z, would it help? I seriously don't mind someone recieving a verification that difficult child is staying in therapy, doing this or that- that isn't my problem. My problem is someone telling my son that I am overprotective, then calling me telling me to make sure he's stays supervised 24/7 OR ELSE. That kind of stuff- when she isn't in the middle of the therapy stuff and wouldn't get it anyway. Couldn't they just let the gal receive monthly reports or something? When difficult child was on probation a few years ago, with a different person, that is pretty much all she did- verify that court orders were being met. She never once got into therapy issues or undermined my decisions. If she had a concern, she called me and we discussed it like two adults and weighed what was in difficult child's best interest.</p><p></p><p>Big brothers is supposed to be good- but when I explored it once before they had a 6 mo waiting list, didn't return my call for 2 mos (to get info) and told me they were mostly college kids who went away at the end of the school year. This might just be the typical for the males, but I had too many concerns about difficult child ending up broken hearted, or at least, disappointed and I couldn't take that chance at that time. He was suffering through the "father" issues and I wanted to be a little more comfrtable that he would have someone dependable for a while.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 249724, member: 3699"] You know, I wonder,now that difficult child will be on medicaid which might pay for more than my provate insurance, if I went into court with things in writing showing that if difficult child wasn't on probation, he would qualify for X, Y and Z, would it help? I seriously don't mind someone recieving a verification that difficult child is staying in therapy, doing this or that- that isn't my problem. My problem is someone telling my son that I am overprotective, then calling me telling me to make sure he's stays supervised 24/7 OR ELSE. That kind of stuff- when she isn't in the middle of the therapy stuff and wouldn't get it anyway. Couldn't they just let the gal receive monthly reports or something? When difficult child was on probation a few years ago, with a different person, that is pretty much all she did- verify that court orders were being met. She never once got into therapy issues or undermined my decisions. If she had a concern, she called me and we discussed it like two adults and weighed what was in difficult child's best interest. Big brothers is supposed to be good- but when I explored it once before they had a 6 mo waiting list, didn't return my call for 2 mos (to get info) and told me they were mostly college kids who went away at the end of the school year. This might just be the typical for the males, but I had too many concerns about difficult child ending up broken hearted, or at least, disappointed and I couldn't take that chance at that time. He was suffering through the "father" issues and I wanted to be a little more comfrtable that he would have someone dependable for a while. [/QUOTE]
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