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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 748641" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>I agree. I love Kay so dearly. We lived her every single day and to keep her feeling safe and valued we bought her cars, a two bedroom home to save her from homelessness, then a mobile home after she quit her job and lost the house, psychiatrists, the world until we ran out of money. Do we want her dead? No!!!!!. We text her love even when she answers back nastily or blocks us.</p><p></p><p>But we are done pressuring her to do anything no matter what. If she and Lee find themselves without a home after all our help, then either Lee's family will have to pay the price of a new place or they will be homeless. Baby Jaden will always have a place to stay, but possibly not them.</p><p></p><p>While we will never ever withdraw our obvious love for our daughter, she is 32 and we are done finding her places to stay that she doesn't see any need for, rehab or mental health units, both which we would dig in and pay for. Kay thinks it is insulting to even suggest either type of help. She wants rent money. No more is possible from us.</p><p></p><p>Kay expresses suicidal ideation a lot. Ideation with no plan has never gotten her a 72 hour evaluation. I feel she is more serious about suicide than she lets anyone know. Even so, since she refuses to admit the depth of her issues, she could just do it one day with no warning. It is our deepest fear. But there is nothing we can do. She wants us to leave her alone, not to keep trying to convince her to get help that she insists she doesn't need. See, we are crazy, not her. We never used the word crazy. But she say we think she is, but its really us. Just pay next month's rent or eff off and get out of her life.</p><p></p><p>I am so glad that Nic Sheff was able to be saved and is gracious enough to help others, bless him. I do not think all of us parents can save our kids. Even if we never stop trying and in our case we have and are being told to by Kay to get lost. There is no communication except her yelling at us or blocking us. She insists on rock bottoms and has had many. </p><p></p><p>I wish all of us could save our children from our greatest fear. We cant or I believe we all would. I give it to God.!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 748641, member: 23706"] I agree. I love Kay so dearly. We lived her every single day and to keep her feeling safe and valued we bought her cars, a two bedroom home to save her from homelessness, then a mobile home after she quit her job and lost the house, psychiatrists, the world until we ran out of money. Do we want her dead? No!!!!!. We text her love even when she answers back nastily or blocks us. But we are done pressuring her to do anything no matter what. If she and Lee find themselves without a home after all our help, then either Lee's family will have to pay the price of a new place or they will be homeless. Baby Jaden will always have a place to stay, but possibly not them. While we will never ever withdraw our obvious love for our daughter, she is 32 and we are done finding her places to stay that she doesn't see any need for, rehab or mental health units, both which we would dig in and pay for. Kay thinks it is insulting to even suggest either type of help. She wants rent money. No more is possible from us. Kay expresses suicidal ideation a lot. Ideation with no plan has never gotten her a 72 hour evaluation. I feel she is more serious about suicide than she lets anyone know. Even so, since she refuses to admit the depth of her issues, she could just do it one day with no warning. It is our deepest fear. But there is nothing we can do. She wants us to leave her alone, not to keep trying to convince her to get help that she insists she doesn't need. See, we are crazy, not her. We never used the word crazy. But she say we think she is, but its really us. Just pay next month's rent or eff off and get out of her life. I am so glad that Nic Sheff was able to be saved and is gracious enough to help others, bless him. I do not think all of us parents can save our kids. Even if we never stop trying and in our case we have and are being told to by Kay to get lost. There is no communication except her yelling at us or blocking us. She insists on rock bottoms and has had many. I wish all of us could save our children from our greatest fear. We cant or I believe we all would. I give it to God.! [/QUOTE]
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