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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 469578" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>OK - so difficult child spent last night at the home of a guy friend (never met him...no nothing about him)...</p><p></p><p>We know this because she sent a text that read: If you care, I'm at X's house. I'm sleeping in his sister's room. The # is xxx-xxxx. It is very unusual for difficult child to text and let us know where she is...so I'm thinking a parent encouraged her to text us.</p><p></p><p></p><p>The BA was supposed to pick difficult child up from school today - so we called and gave her a "heads up" about what's going on...</p><p></p><p>BA called her Supervisor...</p><p></p><p>Supervisor called Idiot Caseworker...</p><p></p><p>Idiot Caseworker called me...</p><p></p><p>And informed me that now that difficult child is living away from home - she no longer qualifies for any services, so Behavior and Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) services are cancelled. What? Just like that? Yep - just like that. Although Idiot Caseworker did tell me that she would ask her Supervisor whether there were any services for families in crisis - but she didn't think so.</p><p></p><p>AND Idiot Caseworker turned in her resignation....so I won't be hearing from her again.</p><p></p><p></p><p>So - that's it.</p><p></p><p>We are on our own with this one. difficult child is at some guy's house. Legally we are still responsible for her. husband is madder than a wet hornet. I'm feeling....I don't even know - lost, confused, upset, frustrated...</p><p></p><p>And what happens next? </p><p></p><p>I don't have the slightest idea what to do.</p><p></p><p>Does anyone have any suggestions?</p><p></p><p>What are our options here?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 469578, member: 6546"] OK - so difficult child spent last night at the home of a guy friend (never met him...no nothing about him)... We know this because she sent a text that read: If you care, I'm at X's house. I'm sleeping in his sister's room. The # is xxx-xxxx. It is very unusual for difficult child to text and let us know where she is...so I'm thinking a parent encouraged her to text us. The BA was supposed to pick difficult child up from school today - so we called and gave her a "heads up" about what's going on... BA called her Supervisor... Supervisor called Idiot Caseworker... Idiot Caseworker called me... And informed me that now that difficult child is living away from home - she no longer qualifies for any services, so Behavior and Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) services are cancelled. What? Just like that? Yep - just like that. Although Idiot Caseworker did tell me that she would ask her Supervisor whether there were any services for families in crisis - but she didn't think so. AND Idiot Caseworker turned in her resignation....so I won't be hearing from her again. So - that's it. We are on our own with this one. difficult child is at some guy's house. Legally we are still responsible for her. husband is madder than a wet hornet. I'm feeling....I don't even know - lost, confused, upset, frustrated... And what happens next? I don't have the slightest idea what to do. Does anyone have any suggestions? What are our options here? [/QUOTE]
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