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<blockquote data-quote="Tiapet" data-source="post: 357707" data-attributes="member: 455"><p>Andy - once upon a year I did read that book and I think I may need to refresh back on it again. It can't hurt at all. Thank you. I do tell the teachers everything now. There once was a time when I wouldn't tell them much at all (for good reasons-there is history there) but now I just don't care and can't. I do get embarrassed as that is a human emotion and I guess I can rid myself of it. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> She is blocked from computer online access at home, we've already had issues with that as well as issues with her using it at the public library so we know there is a problem and don't let her use it there. In school we alerted them and they have blocked her and only allow her access through a special account, if at all and only supervise. Yup, she was having inappropriate contact setting up email account after email account about a year ago- started out using SO email address when logging in somewhere and having verification of adults, then creating her own also send it back to his account. We went into her accounts she created since she was stupid enough to do this and found her conversing with an adult guy from Australia who wanted her to call him and he was repeatedly asking her "why aren't you calling me". He had given his number in email. Thankfully, she never got that one so doesn't know it. We have cell phones. Right now, most of the "friends" she has we know and have restricted her to 2 only that are safe. The rest are trouble and the families don't seem to care what goes on in the houses so she can't be there and hasn't been found to be there or seen there by anyone thankfully. It's the "new" people. I don't know that she is really afraid of me dying. She's never been close to me at all. She was close to her grandmother and even that relationship has turned because she has "turned" on her grandmother as well. She doesn't have many friends in school from what I am told by the SE teacher. She has trouble actually with peers because of her immaturity or way she acts in general. She tends to get picked on a little. At least this is the report back. She is in mainstream with resource. IEP.</p><p> </p><p>ML - thank you for your kind words. Yes SO majorly helps. He knew what he was getting into when he joined me but never did he envision it this bad. He actually can get a lot tougher when necessary as well. I have mastered detachment and ignoring so that it doesn't affect me in a negative way and harm my health (heartwise) as much as possible. I admit, sometimes it does reach me, it's my child.</p><p> </p><p>Midwest - the most recent set of testing done on her was 3 days worth (broken up) and it was a neuro. The most they could say is "it doesn't look like" autism but there are points like it as she is high functioning. It's so very confusing. Since we are in NC, there are 2 top medication facilities. We have been with 1 of them and THEY are also the ones stumped currently. Sad. </p><p></p><p>So an update. She called at 7. I gave her the run down. Said you know rules, you didn't check in, you can read a clock (she had this new girl from last time on phone-speaker I think- and her sister). There is a phone you could have used earlier. Other girl chimes in she was "locked out of house". I said, no excuse (to my daughter) as there is always people outside in the apartments you can ask them what time it is or better yet, COME HOME like you were suppose to. I also said to her did she like getting her friends in trouble and in trouble with the police because that's what will happen when she doesn't come home like she is suppose to and is missing. The girls in the background got quite. She wanted me to make SO go away cuz I told her he was over there looking or her. I said NO, find him and get home. He couldn't find her, she never came home or was visible to him and he came home and figured she wouldn't so long as he was there. It would be a stand off. At 8 I had him call from his phone (different number then mine) since she wasn't home STILL (it's a 5 minute walk about). Someone answered, not friendly was short and then said she JUST left and hung up. Took her all of maybe 7 minutes to get home! </p><p></p><p>ARGH! Her birthday is next week. I always try to do because I want to not based on behavior. I will give the gift but I will NOT be allowing her to take a couple friends rollerskating (have passes). That is above and beyond. Just sad it has to be like this really.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiapet, post: 357707, member: 455"] Andy - once upon a year I did read that book and I think I may need to refresh back on it again. It can't hurt at all. Thank you. I do tell the teachers everything now. There once was a time when I wouldn't tell them much at all (for good reasons-there is history there) but now I just don't care and can't. I do get embarrassed as that is a human emotion and I guess I can rid myself of it. :( She is blocked from computer online access at home, we've already had issues with that as well as issues with her using it at the public library so we know there is a problem and don't let her use it there. In school we alerted them and they have blocked her and only allow her access through a special account, if at all and only supervise. Yup, she was having inappropriate contact setting up email account after email account about a year ago- started out using SO email address when logging in somewhere and having verification of adults, then creating her own also send it back to his account. We went into her accounts she created since she was stupid enough to do this and found her conversing with an adult guy from Australia who wanted her to call him and he was repeatedly asking her "why aren't you calling me". He had given his number in email. Thankfully, she never got that one so doesn't know it. We have cell phones. Right now, most of the "friends" she has we know and have restricted her to 2 only that are safe. The rest are trouble and the families don't seem to care what goes on in the houses so she can't be there and hasn't been found to be there or seen there by anyone thankfully. It's the "new" people. I don't know that she is really afraid of me dying. She's never been close to me at all. She was close to her grandmother and even that relationship has turned because she has "turned" on her grandmother as well. She doesn't have many friends in school from what I am told by the SE teacher. She has trouble actually with peers because of her immaturity or way she acts in general. She tends to get picked on a little. At least this is the report back. She is in mainstream with resource. IEP. ML - thank you for your kind words. Yes SO majorly helps. He knew what he was getting into when he joined me but never did he envision it this bad. He actually can get a lot tougher when necessary as well. I have mastered detachment and ignoring so that it doesn't affect me in a negative way and harm my health (heartwise) as much as possible. I admit, sometimes it does reach me, it's my child. Midwest - the most recent set of testing done on her was 3 days worth (broken up) and it was a neuro. The most they could say is "it doesn't look like" autism but there are points like it as she is high functioning. It's so very confusing. Since we are in NC, there are 2 top medication facilities. We have been with 1 of them and THEY are also the ones stumped currently. Sad. So an update. She called at 7. I gave her the run down. Said you know rules, you didn't check in, you can read a clock (she had this new girl from last time on phone-speaker I think- and her sister). There is a phone you could have used earlier. Other girl chimes in she was "locked out of house". I said, no excuse (to my daughter) as there is always people outside in the apartments you can ask them what time it is or better yet, COME HOME like you were suppose to. I also said to her did she like getting her friends in trouble and in trouble with the police because that's what will happen when she doesn't come home like she is suppose to and is missing. The girls in the background got quite. She wanted me to make SO go away cuz I told her he was over there looking or her. I said NO, find him and get home. He couldn't find her, she never came home or was visible to him and he came home and figured she wouldn't so long as he was there. It would be a stand off. At 8 I had him call from his phone (different number then mine) since she wasn't home STILL (it's a 5 minute walk about). Someone answered, not friendly was short and then said she JUST left and hung up. Took her all of maybe 7 minutes to get home! ARGH! Her birthday is next week. I always try to do because I want to not based on behavior. I will give the gift but I will NOT be allowing her to take a couple friends rollerskating (have passes). That is above and beyond. Just sad it has to be like this really. [/QUOTE]
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